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Permalink Reply by Shelly on
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Thank you both so far. This is such a tough decision. I know he would be proud of me and he wants me to do this but the timing is unfortunate I know he's looking forward to me going too. His dad is going but they aren't close at all. Thank you again. It's so great to have support from you. I'm 21 he's 22 and yes we are trying to get our lives in order before marriage.
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Permalink Reply by NancyB59 on
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Take the job. You will have many celebrations together. This, while very important, is just one step. Your new job will give you so many opportunities and help provide for the two of you. (((Hugs)))
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Permalink Reply by Jeanette on
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I really feel for you in this situation! I would first explain to the airlines your dilemma and ask if your training can be postponed. If you don't try that option you'll never know if it could have worked out for you to do both! Let us know how you work it out.
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Permalink Reply by Ericuts on
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Take the job. In the big picture that's going to be the best decision for your future together, especially since he supported your desire to do that. A life together is always about compromise and commitment, looking for the good of the whole.
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I agree with what Jeanette said below. The worst that could happen is they would tell you no. Best of luck!
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Permalink Reply by Vickie360 on
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If this is the job you have been waiting for and if it is possible that the opportunity won't come again, then take it!! You will both be starting your careers at the same time and will both miss the other's graduation but you will have this part behind you and can look forward to your long life together!
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Permalink Reply by 1Bodyprof on
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Take the job. I bet he will be supportive and understand. Make sure to order the PIR DVD
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Permalink Reply by Davis Mema on
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I know you feel conflicted right now but you need to look at the whole picture. You have been working toward your goal to be a flight attendant, you have reached that goal; now grab this opportunity and fulfill your wish. Maybe you could transfer your plane ticket and hotel room to his Mom or a really good friend of his. Something to think about.
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Permalink Reply by Jenn (Proud AO Mom) on
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I"d have to say go to the training. It's a terrible decision to make but the job is something that will benefit you for your lives together. It stinks to miss PIR BUT there will be many more accomplishments and celebrations for you two to share. Good luck and congratulations to both you and your SR regardless of what you decide to do!!
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Shelly, the first of many sacrifices we all make. I think you're going to have to go to your training. It won't hurt to ask the airline to postpone, but don't count on it. This job will benefit both you and your SR in the future. The PIR is broadcast live every Friday morning and you can also order a DVD. Small consolation, but the big picture here is what's important. And I agree with Nancy B59 - there will be many, many more celebrations to share with your SR. Let us know how it all turns out for you.
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Permalink Reply by Jean-9 ship07div113 on
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Shelly, I'm sure that he will be as proud of you as you are of him. I agree that you should go to the training. There will be pictures and he will get to tell you all about it. You can be there for the graduation from his A school. That is just as exciting and sometimes not as many get to go so it will mean more. Best of luck!
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Shelley,
Go for the job, your SR would want you to do that; it would be beneficial for both of you. Think of the future & the benefits you would receive. Weigh the benefis you would have, & the ones you would lose.
We went to our Grandaughter's BC Graduation & it was great, she was selected as a asst. Petty Officer & I could not take my eyes off of her, in a matter of hrs. She was shipped off to Pennsicola & we had to say goodbye! We did a little sightseeing & flew back home.
She is happy, & the one Graduation we must attend if possible is when she
graduates with her WINGS. THIS IS THE BIG GRADUATION.
I'm m sure your SR would want the same, GOOD LUCK, GOD BLESS YOU BOTH -
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