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Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Visite esta página para explorar en su idioma las oportunidades de educación y carreras para sus hijos en el Navy. Navy.com

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"I'll be thinking of you all the time. I love you baby, so much."
One of the last text messages I have from my husband. Probably the only thing keeping me sane. It's been a week since he started his journey and it feels like its been forever. I wish things were easier. I keep finding all these things to keep myself occupied but they don't occupy my mind long enough. I am hoping it gets easier once I finally am able to receive letters from him. But until then I write him ever night and I feel like I'm talking to myself because I am obviously not getting a response yet.
How can I be support in a message and pretend like I'm holding down the fort here when in all reality I'm falling apart :(

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Oh dear hun. I went through the*same* thing. The first few nights were awful, extremely awful. But then I had a revelation, that he needs me to be strong more than ever, he needs spey when he had nothing at all. A completely foreign place with all these people yelling at him and torturing him with all the IT and emotional stress. He needs you to be his rock. And it gets... not easier but you adapt. He's still not there but if you find a purpose in it, it makes it a challenge to complete. The box certainly gave me some relief. His things all came back home :) his shirt smelled like hin (not anymore, I've been sleeping with it) his phone, his jeans, etc. Oh! and that first phone call, made it feel like it was christmas morning all over again! You gotta take what you get and remember he really needs your support *hugs to you*

I want to tell you it will get easier, but for me it was the longest 8 weeks of my life. I cried most days, phone calls were few. I did manage to keep all letters upbeat and positive, if I could not find my own words to sound upbeat I would send lyrics to song, inspirational quotes, funny jokes. I burned candles to bring comfort, and in my mind I was sending strength to my SR, in doing so. I made ribbons to wear at PIR and a door decoration for the hotel room, I made a calender we both could share, crossing each day off and crossing each Friday off, counting Fridays seemed to make it go by faster. 

Big hugs!!! 

Thanks guys! I'm trying. It's just stressful being pregnant and having two young kids to explain it to. I'm a hormonal mess! Lol

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