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All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

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**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

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**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

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I just got my first letter from my son. I'm so worried. He's not making friends. He says he's had more bad days than good. And most of the time he feels like he's not going to make it. Once in a while he'll have a good day, and he's is proud of those days. It was a very difficult letter to read. I'm fighting back tears now just writing about it. I'm feeling helpless. There is nothing I can do. I want to write him some encouraging words, but what can I say? Does anyone now how often a SR fails? I know how bad he would feel if he failed and was sent home. I pray that doesn't happen. Has anyone had a SR that struggled through BC and hated it?

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Continue to encourage him and he will be ok.  My daughter was really sad in boot camp and struggled with the swimming test.  She has been in the Navy for 5 years now and counting.  The first few years were hard for us both but, I learned to accept the decision and embrace her new found independence.  You will be fine. (Smile

Thank you. That makes me feel so much better.
Yes. My daughter fail the floating test. I was told you have 15 time to do the the test. For her 3 times before passing. As time go by he will get better and have some encouragement from other SR.

No, it's not 15 times for the PFA, but she will have plenty of opportunities to practice before the one that counts.

I left info for you on your My Page.

It's my understanding the instructors will do everything they cam to keep recruits from failing

Yes, the RDC's want them all to be ready when the final PFA comes so they can go on to to become US Navy Sailors.

Thank you
My son failed the float test. He is going to the pool twice a day. He's feeling more confident but as mom I can't help but worry. He needs to pass this to move on

It is very common for the first letters to indicate that the recruit is struggling and/or that the division is not working together. As time goes by and the recruit and those in the division learn to do things the Navy way things get better for everyone and many recruits actually start having some fun and calls and letters are much more upbeat. Just keep encouraging your recruit.

This is the current uniform of a Sailor who was positive that she was going to be sent home from RTC. In her final boot camp letter she credited the encouraging and supportive letters from home for her eventual success.

I think most of them wonder if they made the right decision in those first 2 weeks. I mentioned to my son that his friend that graduated the day after he went to boot camp had thought about quitting in the first 2weeks......He said to be honest mom( I always cringe when he says that..lol) I thought that too. The last letter I received this week stated it was getting slightly better day by day. I worry about him making friends too. My son is thankful for the encouraging words....so I just encourage and don't relay unpleasant news from home. I'm thinking they break them to make them. They learn to rely on each other because this is what it's about....right? They will be fine and as excited and proud as we as parents are.....can prob not compare to how extremely overjoyed and proud they are of themselves and each other that they made it!

I found out this past Monday that my SR got in trouble for passing a note to a girl recruit. His graduation was pushed back 2 weeks and he was taken out of the honors division (choir) which he loved so much. I am so worried that this might just break him, I have not got to speak to him since this has happened. I cant imagine how hard this is getting moved to a new group after making friend and bonds with the other group. I cant even send letters because I do not have is new division number yet. This is killing me. I just really want to talk to him and offer some encouragement and tell him to keep his head up. I know he did this to himself but I hope he learns from this. That is still the 18 year old boy in him. I know going through these things will make him a man.

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