This site is for mothers of kids in the U.S. Navy and for Moms who have questions about Navy life for their kids.

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FOLLOW THESE STEPS TO GET STARTED:

Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Navy Speak

Click here to learn common Navy terms and acronyms!  (Hint:  When you can speak an entire sentence using only acronyms and one verb, you're truly a Navy mom.)

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Navy.com Para Familias

Visite esta página para explorar en su idioma las oportunidades de educación y carreras para sus hijos en el Navy. Navy.com

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Our sailor came home for transfer leave. This is his first time home in about 11 months. First time since leaving for boot camp. I have loved having him home. But it has been a little rough but in all it has been wonderful. Just having him here and seeing his face everyday has been fantastic. But... this mom is starting to lose it. He leaves soon to go to his next duty station and then when his ship arrives he will be going out on it. So I’m starting to get quite sad. It’s hard to think that I’m not going to see him again for a while. So much can happen during that time and usually does. Life is that way. It’s hard to keep it together. I don’t want him to see me fall apart. But it’s so hard. So I hide in my room. But then that wastes valuable time with him. Anyway does anybody have any tips on how to deal with this? Thanks.

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Comment by Chipmunk on October 6, 2017 at 12:29am

NavyMom2017 - I just noticed you had posted this. I don't have any experience yet dealing with your situation, because mine has just gotten to A school and started his classes. He hasn't gone out on a ship yet. What I do know is that we all deal with separation from our loved ones in different ways and we all have different emotional rollercoasters.

Hopefully some other veteran Moms will see this and people to post more concrete answers for you. In the meantime, know that you are in my thoughts and prayers tonight as you are dealing with various emotions. - Chipmunk

Comment by lemonelephant on October 9, 2017 at 2:39am

Showers are great places to fall apart and pull yourself together. Try to enjoy the time you have together and try not to miss him before he leaves or worry about what could happen. Worrying doesn't do a bit of good and just takes precious time away from good times and it makes you look a mess. Smile and enjoy the time you have together and know that you have put him in the best hands of all--those of God and the US Navy. Hug your loved ones when they are near and keep them close to your heart in your thoughts and prayers when they are away until you can hold them in your arms again.

Comment by Anti M on October 9, 2017 at 9:04am

There is such a thing as having an ugly  cry in the shower, where no one can hear you.  A staple of military spouses everywhere, a mom can use it just as well.  Leave your stress in the shower!

Comment by ALmacomLL on October 10, 2017 at 12:32am
Crying in front of your SR is OK too. Laugh about the cry with him/her and reinforce your pride and commitment to the decision to be a SR. Allowing this to happen will enable you both to move past it and continue with new conversatio.

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