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All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

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**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  Still limited to 2 guests maximum.

Specific information on this policy change will be provided in the coming days and weeks.

We sincerely apologize for any inconvenience and appreciate your support.


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**UPDATE 7/16/2021**




**UPDATE - 2020**

Due to COVID there is no public PIR. The graduations are on Thursday, and the video of the graduation is posted on RTC's FaceBook on Friday at approx 3pm. Please keep in mind that a division may need to complete additional quarantine during training which will delay their graduation.

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

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I have no idea what to expect, but I did t expect this to be quite this difficult. Anyone else have someone who arrived on 1/8?

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It's harder for us because  of the unknowns. They are busy learning how to get by and what's expected  of them. My son said the first week was s.l.o.w. with lots of paperwork but by the 3rd week is was getting real. We are about to start week 6 and its finally going by fast. Hang in there.

I can’t imagine waiting four weeks! This weeks has already felt like an eternity! Are you confident your son gets your letters? That’s one of my big concerns. I already have a stack of letters to send her just waiting for the address.

Yes he gets them. He responds to  questions  I've asked and updates I've given on family. Your recruiter should be able to get you the address  at about 1 wk in. 

Thanks for the response. The unknown really is the worst. How long did it take you to get your first letter? I keep thinking once I hear from her I will feel a little better.

I got a letter 3days short of 4weeks...the longest 4 wks ever. And I got a call the same day, not at all expected but it was so exciting to hear his voice and the reassurance that  he was doing well. We have  only recieved 2letters from him, trying to remember  he is still adjusting and lots of testing. We send him 1 letter a day because  I know he needs all the encouragement he can get...and encourage you to write even when you dont get a response. 

My daughter arrived on 1/8, too. I didn’t expect it to be this hard. I haven’t gotten anything except the initial “I’m here” call. I’m looking forward to the form letter and hope it will alleviate some of the sadness. I bought some pretty stationary she’d like and I’m going to start writing on it. Hugs!
I was so disappointed with the initi “I’m here” call. I knew it was supposed to be short, but I had no idea it was scripted. It was quite the shock. What is your daughter going into after boot camp?
She’s going into Master at Arms. Yours?

My son also arrived on 1/8 from the west coast! Got that scripted 30 second call, just awaiting on his box & form letter! I’m hoping they both arrive this week! I signed up for informed delivery through the USPS to see what’s going to be in my mailbox! I’ve never been more excited to check my mailbox! I usually check it once a week or longer, but not anymore!!

My daughter left the same day. Haven’t gotten anything yet but the call. I signed up for informed delivery too. This site is so supportive and helpful!!

I agree! I live reading everyone’s comments & updates on their sailors! Nice to know all us moms feel the same way about our recruits being gone! My husband thinks I’m bonkers for having such anxiety over this! Lol


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