Oh Tabitha I am so sorry to hear this. And it breaks my heart that his command is not addressing this or taking it more seriously. You should reach out to the Ombudsman or the Chaplain and they should be able to give you some direction . I would do that immediately. Where is he stationed?
Mrs. Tabitha I found this site and it has numbers in it to reach out. I hope this Helps you.
The reason I am posting this is because there have been a few instances that have happened where my Son is Stationed and it is kept hushed but they do speak on this a lot. and the Handbook has numbers to reach out.
You know stating that I see a lot of it in My Son...I have brought it to his attention this last time around and asked him to please seek help about this. But he keeps telling me he is ok, just sleep deprived.
My Son doesn't give me much detail, As he tells me Yes Mom they called us in for a meeting and let it be known. It is such a Sad Sad thing. I cant even Imagine what the Parents must feel or have to go thru. I so tell my Son to please reach out to me your sisters anyone if ever in Need of help. I just cant imagine getting a Call as Tabitha and her Husband I feel so Helpless, as One of our own Mother's is facing this.
What part of AZ if I may ask? How long have you lived here? Me and My Husband were both born and raised then as a teenager I moved to San Jose for a few Years but it was way to fast so I came back home, needed more of a slow pace.