This site is for mothers of kids in the U.S. Navy and for Moms who have questions about Navy life for their kids.
FIRST TIME HERE?
FOLLOW THESE STEPS TO GET STARTED:
Choose your Username. For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either). Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username. While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!
Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!
Join groups! Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself! Start making friends that can last a lifetime.
Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak
All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018.
Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)
Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC
...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.
OPSEC - Navy Operations Security
Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind. In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships." OPSEC is everyone's responsibility.
DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.
DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."
Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:
Events
**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.
FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:
RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021
Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.
Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.
Format Downloads:
- Graduation Info
- PDF – 2.7 MB
- PNG – 2.3 MB
- JPG – 3.4 MB
- Printable PDF – 2.0 MB
Latest Activity
Navy Speak
Click here to learn common Navy terms and acronyms! (Hint: When you can speak an entire sentence using only acronyms and one verb, you're truly a Navy mom.)
N4M Merchandise
Shirts, caps, mugs and more can be found at CafePress.
Please note: Profits generated in the production of this merchandise are not being awarded to the Navy or any of its suppliers. Any profit made is retained by CafePress.
Navy.com Para Familias
Visite esta página para explorar en su idioma las oportunidades de educación y carreras para sus hijos en el Navy. Navy.com
Badge
Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors
Information
Hello my name is Keisha and i am the creator of this group. Thanks for joining and i hope that all the advice this group gives is helpful
Please, if you no longer want to be a part of N4M's consider NOT deleting your profile as everything you have ever posted will disappear when you delete it . You can leave a group but don't permanently delete your profile!
Location: From Atlanta, GA all the way to Cali-forn-i-a now in Washington State
Members: 3872
Latest Activity: Feb 6
Discussion Forum
Help needed!!
Started by Nia. Last reply by Nia Sep 7, 2022. 4 Replies 0 Likes
Hi everyone! My name is Nia, I’m new here. I just have a question that have been giving me anxiety lately. So my boyfriend has been emailing me every morning and sometimes night overseas, and then suddenly the flow has stopped out of no where. I’ve…Continue
advice!
Started by Mykenzie Apr 1, 2022. 0 Replies 0 Likes
Hi ladies!I just would love some advice on this current topic my significant other and i are having currently. without saying too much he’s enlisted in the navy and i am currently a university student. his work peers really value his work and his…Continue
Graduation coming up
Started by Kelly Jan 9, 2022. 0 Replies 0 Likes
Hi,Im new here and I am glad that I found a group that share my confusion during new path of couple life. My boyfriend is due to graduate on the 28th and I am so sad I can't make it to see him. Mainly cause he only had two invites and family comes…Continue
Hubby shipping off to BC June 24!
Started by TARA. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 1 Reply 0 Likes
Hi Everyone,I am new to this group and would like to say how thankful I am for finding a community of Navy wives, fiancés and girlfriends who can lend support to each other. A short background of our Navy journey - my guy wanted to sign up as EM…Continue
New here!
Started by Linda Jane. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 4 Replies 0 Likes
Hi. I just joined last night. I wanted to introduce myself. I’m linda. My boyfriend is in Great Lakes now for basic training ship 02 Div 950. Then after graduation he immediately ships off to A school in SC. This is all extremely new to me and his…Continue
Fiancé Advice
Started by Lauren C. Last reply by astc Sep 26, 2019. 5 Replies 0 Likes
My fiance just joined the Navy and was sent off to bootcamp this week. We've been together for almost six years and we plan to get married after bootcamp is over.> I was hoping you could tell me if waiting until bootcamp is over was the smart…Continue
Good neighborhoods around Great Lakes IL??
Started by Artfulmind. Last reply by WCK110658 Jul 9, 2019. 3 Replies 0 Likes
Hi everyone! Hubs, baby, and I will be stationed in Great Lakes soon was wondering if anyone new of some good safe family friendly neighborhoods to rent a place? We don't mind being a half hour or so away from base. Heard the surrounding…Continue
Hello Everyone!
Started by mommasett. Last reply by Anti M Mar 27, 2019. 1 Reply 1 Like
Happy Hump day to all!! I am new here and I am so glad that I have found this group! I am hoping it helps in my journey with my boyfriend and understanding his Navy Life a little better. Continue
POA to get a military i.d.
Started by Hafaadai. Last reply by Ib_vv_N Feb 23, 2019. 7 Replies 3 Likes
Hi! My SR left for BC on 28th of Nov. I received THE BOX on Dec. 6th. Still waiting on his form letter, personal letter and DEERS. He did not leave me a POA before he left because the recruiter said we won’t really need it until he gets out of BC.…Continue
sending photos
Started by lifesimplified Feb 20, 2019. 0 Replies 0 Likes
My boyfriend shipped out on 2/11/19. I just received his box but no form letter yet. As soon as I get his address, I will be writing him daily and sending many photos. I read somewhere on this forum that the recruits must show all photos to the…Continue
Comment Wall
Comment
-
Comment by Suzette <3 on April 26, 2010 at 1:06am
-
eric's wife: how excitingg!!!!! im in the same boat, once he finishes a-school we'll finally be on our own after living with my father-in-law for 3 years! i cant wait too :) where will u guys be stationed? do u know yet?
-
Comment by Amanduh on April 26, 2010 at 1:00am
-
my father in law was trying to the push the "share a hotel room with me" thing. i thought it was totally inappropriate!! and i eventually told my husband about it and he thought it was weird too!
my husband graduates "a" school on friday!!!!!! then we will be making our move to our first duty station! i am soooo excited!!!! this will be our first place all to ourselves and we've been dreaming of it for YEARS!! Thanks to the Navy for making it all possible!!
-
-
exactly!! they gotta understand that we are first in their lives now (sounds so bad) but it's soo true lol... we'll see how it goes :)
-
-
yes i have my own room thank god! haha his mom was tryna push it wanting to share a room with me but i was like NOOOO!! hahaha
-
-
haha im sooo glad we're on this topic right now because i have been stressin about this for a while now.... i have to share my hubby with his dad, mom, and bro... as well as our daughter and i really want us to have some kind of "alone" time but knowing his mom that is just not gna happen :/ im kinda bummed about it but im tryin not to be selfish and i felt really bad about it but now that i see all of u with the same concern, i dont feel as bad anymore haha. hopefully we will be able to be alone at some point in time during our stay up there! his PIR is this fri 4/30 and im suuper excited for his phone call home tmrw! he's going thru BS as we speak so im very anxious to here from him!! :)
-
Comment by Nicole loves Sean (EM-N (SS)) on April 25, 2010 at 11:36pm
-
Anti M- parked car was NEVER an option regardless of him getting in trouble or not... just sharing some "ideas" good, bad or otherwise
-
Comment by AF Airman on April 25, 2010 at 11:24pm
-
When i went to my bfs PIR i went with his mom and my mom all of us shared a room,LUCKY for me he got overnight liberty so he slept in the hotel too. His grandpa stayed in a diff hotel across the street but he left the next day. It was hard to get alone time but we managed to go out to the movies alone it was weird though because our moms dropped us off and picked us up lol. His mom was really cool about it i love her. One night she was like hey why dont you go show him the jacuzzi and we left and spent some time there and then walked around the hotel before going to bed.
-
Comment by Anti M on April 25, 2010 at 11:01pm
-
C-wifey, being an ex-sailor, rum is my drink! LOL.
-
-
LOL, not in a parked car ... if you two get busted he's in big trouble with the Navy! But I do understand the problem. You do the best you can, and one hopes the family gets the clue.
Yeah, my MIL called me Dawn for almost two weeks when she met me the ex's name. Hubby and I had been married two years! And he NEVER lived with Dawn, he only married her because of his son, then filed for divorce three days later. I met him after that, but I still get the blame 23 years later. I can't even buy a correct Christmas present or give her a compliment. Sad, huh?
Hubby and I bicker, but never fight. Our cue to stop is when the other one says "drink some water"! Because we go camping in the desert (Burning Man) and dehydration is always a threat, if someone gets cranky they need to drink some water!
-
-
lmao luvasub!!! my friends said i should do that too! (i'm sharing a room with his grandmother) Other suggestions i was given:
find an open parked car and go at it.
Grandma is deaf/would love to join in ( i have some degenerate friends as you can see)
there are more
unfortunately I would never be "empowered" enough to do any of that, so hopefully his family will just take the lead or he will ask.
© 2025 Created by Navy for Moms Admin.
Powered by
You need to be a member of Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors to add comments!