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Comment by Mrs. STS <3 on March 7, 2010 at 12:22pm

Hi everyone. :) my name is Tanya and my fiance' is a Sonar technition on submarines stationed in GA. :) were planing on getting married when he returns from patrol.... i can't wait!! :)

Comment by Hope-Nuke ET Wife on March 7, 2010 at 12:46am

Hello! I am new to N4M.. My husband just left for boot camp on March 4th and our son is taking it the hardest.. Does anyone have any ideas on what to do to calm a daddy's boy 18 month old down?

Comment by Hannah on March 6, 2010 at 2:46pm

Anti M, the way him and his family is they would make my life miserable to say the least.They have the money to drag it through court and everything..I have my job and schools here so i wanted to stay here till that got through but my fiance wants me to go now he doesnt care how it will effect me..I love my fiance and support him but i feel like pulling her away from the only people she has ever known is not the best thing for her

Comment by bulldogmamma on March 6, 2010 at 11:48am

Hey Jcon, its a pretty decent base but sooo boring lol after 4 years im ready to go! lol but its one of the best for a family as far as safety and schools go its probably the best.

Comment by bulldogmamma on March 6, 2010 at 10:31am

Hi, Im Laura married 7 yrs my husband is currently an STS submariner were here in Groton CT and hes been in for 9 yrs he has crossrated to CTM so were sorta starting all over again lol It feels weird that I have so many questions! So if there are any SO's of CTM's out there Ive got the ?s and I can help with anyone who has a sailor about to be a Submariner :) Its a great community and Its going to be so hard to be out of it!

Comment by Anti M on March 5, 2010 at 2:27pm

We were supposed to have holidays and summers, but we never did. We would have had to go to CT and fight there. Depends on which state the agreement is drawn up in, and if the other parent decides to cooperate and/or fight. We never fought, because we couldn't get enough time or money to go do so. Plus it seemed cruel to take him away from his mom.

Comment by Hannah on March 5, 2010 at 2:21pm

The lawyer i talked to did my papers when i was little and i was like look i aint okay with sending her away for that long..the way she put it was i do it that way or fight for custody straight out.i have tried to look up different things however most of what i find is/or is close to what she told me.

Comment by navywife72 on March 5, 2010 at 12:45pm

Hannah..... In most states the father cant even have the child over night until they are 2yrs of age and usually if one parent lives in a other state the fater and mother alternate holidays and father does get the child part of the summer. each state does thing a little different you can look up your state laws on custody.

Comment by Cp7 on March 5, 2010 at 3:20am

Hannah...i know the feeling! My ex has a very rich family and they have spent tens of thousands fighting me! They fight and care more than my ex does. I eventually have to leave my son behind for my husband and our future children....it kills me. BUt let me tell u this, they will not do the week thing with an infant...they wouldnt even it do it when my son was 2.

Comment by Hannah on March 5, 2010 at 2:22am

We are doing papers for custody.He had a DNA test done cause of some of his family members where being ignorant.But he never signed the birth certificate.He has helped with raising her we have set schedule on when he has her i mean he is an active part of her life.He wants her to have his last name he just wanted all the legal papers done.His family has taken me in and treated me as their own and paid for alot for me and helped me alot.When i got engaged it was like i smacked them in the face or something.they told me i wasn't leaving.I have heard them say they would go to court for custody.Even my lawyer said i would have to send her home for weeks at a time..at least two weeks a month , 6-8 weeks in the summer and holidays were horrible..I haven't told them anything about moving or plans except i am planning on getting back into school..
cp7..My sailor more than likely will never be close to here at a base the closest to here is 9 hours or so...i have thought up all kinds of scenarios but in the end i am choosing one over the other and i hate that.But i feel bad cause i know this is ugly but my daughter always comes first to me over anything...
the way his family is they would fight me so hard to get her..they have alot more money and connections than i do in the town we are from and it is so hard to think if i try to move to be with my fiance they will take my daughter.

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