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All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018.
Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)
Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC
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Marybeth - on the left-hand side of this page are many useful links - including email, half-way boxes and more.
MaryBeth, If this is his first underway, then I am guessing he does not have his dolphins yet. If that is the case he will be VERY busy! At some point he might email you - that will give you his email address. You can email plain text - no pictures - to him, but do not expect many responses - continue to email.
Hopefully you are on the Omsbudsman's list, you may or may not be able to send a halfway box (gallon baggie or showbox depending on the boat regulations) the omsbudsman will have that info.
As an OPSEC rule, we do not put exact departure or returning info in text, emails or posts. Usually - "leaving soon" or "arriving soon". Hope that helps
mrsb..thanks. Yes I have learned that no new is good news. I will just pray for everyones safe return. What are the halfway boxes/?
Good morning MaryBeth! All I can say is remember that no news is good news! I was very worried about my son's first underway, he wasn't worried at all, was looking forward to it! The lack of communication is difficult but you can send him emails. He won't be able to respond right away but he can read them. When I got the first one from my son I was in tears, just because it was so cool that he was emailing me from underwater somewhere! He will be safe and extremely busy, has to work on quals so they keep the new ones busy with that. He won't have any time for much else except sleeping and eating. He will be fine, and so will you!
Hi everyone. My son called me last night to say that he will go underway tmrw afternoon. This is his first deployment so I don't know what to expect nor does he. Somewhat nervous, both of us, about what to expect. He doesn't know how long he will be underway as he flew to HI while his boat was already underway. He is going to call me tonight before he goes silent. Any advice to share with me ladies would be greatly appreciated!!!
kevsmom, I was just thinking about you and here you are!!! I will send an email, I promise!!!
No girlfriends or wives for my boys. But I just wanted to say to the moms who responded to Cath's request for help that we have some of the best mom's out there! Who would have ever thought to send a "halfway" box full of goodies & the texts and pics, really sweet! You could even theme them for the different holidays coming too; St. Patrick's Day, Easter and don't forget to add some treats for the 4-legged ones too!
Micah's mom what a great idea--sending text or pics of your son when he was little to his girlfriend. She gets to really know about him.
Cath Bubblehead, would your daughter-in-law leave the dogs at a kennel or with someone, or even have someone come to the house to feed and let them out? You could always send her some thinking of you cards or even a "halfway" box filled with some goodies. Good luck.
Micah's Mom - That's a great idea! I do text and even facetime with her. They have 2 dogs, or else I would even give her plane fare to come here to CT to be with us for a while.
I was looking online for ideas and am surprised there is not much out there - except for spouses.
Cath Bubblehead, My son is not married but has a serious girlfriend. He is in Conn, she is in South Carolina, her family is in England, and I'm in Indiana. One thing that I do when is he is on deployment or underway - I send her by text an amusing story of when my son was little or I will text her a picture of him when he was a little guy. Both she and my son have said how much they appreciate it. My son has requested that I continue it. She says that she looks forward to the texts messages and they make her feel like my son is close to her.
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