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FOLLOW THESE STEPS TO GET STARTED:

Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Click here to learn common Navy terms and acronyms!  (Hint:  When you can speak an entire sentence using only acronyms and one verb, you're truly a Navy mom.)

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Navy.com Para Familias

Visite esta página para explorar en su idioma las oportunidades de educación y carreras para sus hijos en el Navy. Navy.com

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Sub Moms

Welcome to the deep, silent world of submarines!  If you're new to this world, start by reading the "Pages" of info found in the right-hand column, below the strip of member avatars.

We welcome your questions.  But, while you're here, maintain silence... don't slam doors or the lid on the toilet!

 Please, if you no longer want to be a part of N4M's consider NOT deleting your profile as everything you have ever posted will disappear when you delete it .  You can leave a group but don't permanently delete your profile!

Group Administrator: Kaye S. Kaye S.

Members: 1304
Latest Activity: Feb 11

READ THE "PAGES" FIRST!

NEW MEMBERS !!

PLEASE READ ARTICLES IN THE "PAGES" AREA

in the right-hand column, under the avatars ----->

BEFORE YOU ASK QUESTIONS !!

These articles are the "reference library" for moms, ready to answer FAQs (Frequently Asked Questions) 24x7 (twenty-four hours, seven days a week).  You may not have to post a question after all!  Thanks, Kaye S.

 NOTE:  THERE ARE MORE PAGES THAN DISPLAYED -

FOR A COMPLETE LIST, CLICK ON "VIEW ALL" AT

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New to this life?  SURVIVAL GUIDE FOR NEW NAVY MOMS

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Discussion Forum

Roll Call: Name your sailor's sub!

Started by Kaye S.. Last reply by jes12joy Jan 29, 2021. 1320 Replies

Personal Storage on Fast Attack Subs

Started by Catherine. Last reply by navyvet May 19, 2020. 1 Reply

Personal Storage on Fast Attack Subs

Started by Catherine. Last reply by JayDee659 May 18, 2020. 1 Reply

submarine visits to foreign ports

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Comment by MOMofDREW2.0 on December 8, 2014 at 8:14pm

Thank you J's&S's Mom & William. I was ambivalent until your posts. This is one of the most thought provoking  threads I've read.  I'm glad I chose not to 'scroll' through it.  Now I think you should make a file for this topic and it should be a 'must read' for new members.

Comment by MaineGrammy on December 7, 2014 at 8:33pm

J's&S's Mom!  Food for thought for sure.  Had not even thought about that.  

Comment by William in Nashua on December 7, 2014 at 1:03pm

We trust the enlisted female sailors on submarine tenders with the lives of our submariners too, since the tender's job is to repair and provison the subs.  No part of their job involves becoming pregnant on the ship during the time that ship is underway though -- yet 27% of them do become pregnant every year,  like clockwork. Although the tenders spend most of their time moored in a harbor somewhere, they do go on deployments too.  One N4M member about 5 years ago remarked that one tender had left for a 3 month deployment starting with no pregnant crewmembers, and upon landfall 3 month later there were 27 pregnancies that all occurred while on the ship.  The sailors came back between 2-3 months pregnant.  The task of a submarine tender is to be a floating machine shop, and rendevous at sea with  s

27 pregnancies on one ship during 3 months.  The account did not mention how many of those pregnancies involved married couples where husband and wife were both assigned to the same ship during the blessed event -- I will go out on a limb and guess that number was zero.

Maybe that has no bearing on Navy plans of putting 20% females on the enlisted crew of a fast attack submarine over the next five years.

Comment by MaineGrammy on December 7, 2014 at 12:53pm

Very true NonnaB!  

I also agree...time to put this one to rest.  :)

Comment by NonnaB on December 7, 2014 at 8:25am
I don't often comment and I try not to be controversial, but I am laying it out there right now. You all can agree or not but here is how I feel. I raised my children to respect each other. Brothers and sisters share bathrooms and even bedrooms. The Nav is a family. Submariners are special and the group that is quickest to advance. Why would you deny that to someone just because of their sex? I am sure that there is a lot of illicit behavior on carriers and they have way more space Han a boat. Tight quarters is a poor excuse for amoral behavior. The Navy has a code f honor and all are expected to follow it. We may not like the co-Ed decision but it will be accomplished in the Navy way - with dignity and respect.
Comment by tysmom on December 7, 2014 at 7:58am

We are monitored on this site and I hope our comments are not taken lightly. The Navy needs tor do what is best for all those involved without being concerned about being PC.We are really discussing our nations security here and adding another stress level in my humble opinion is not the best, but who am I to make those decisions.

Seems like so long ago that I saw my sailor and it was only 10 days ago that he left!!!

Comment by bcgoldy03 on December 6, 2014 at 7:03pm

985cat Bless your son and Thank him for serving our nation!! Hooyah is right ! and I agree I am sure we will all be hearing more of this subject but i also agree that we have beaten it to death here for now!!  May they have fair winds on Wyoming 742

Comment by 985cat ship 14 div 065 on December 6, 2014 at 6:30pm

Does anyone here ever share what the name of the Sub  is there Sailor is on? I am asking because I see Groups named after Subs on Here. So I guess so?

Comment by BunkerQB on December 6, 2014 at 3:55pm

There are just so many bathrooms/showers on a submarine. As it is with the boomers that have integrated women, more men must share per shower/bath than shower/bath for the women right now. If 20% of the crew on a boomer were women, yes accommodation could be designed so the number of users/facility is somewhat equal for the men and the women. Our submarine force has been shrinking over the years, reflection of the size of our military force in general.

Logistically on a fast attack it can't be done. Space is at a super premium. We are talking about a piece of machinery that cost over a billion dollars to built. It is designed to operate at maximum efficiency. If the Navy wants women on a fast attack, then make it an all female crew. Otherwise, tear down any barriers whatsoever and have men and women share everything - everyone treated equally, no privacy whatsoever - like in the movie Starship Troopers. Any of you think the Russians, North Koreans or the Chinese are going to give a hoot about integrating women into a fast attack crew?  They are probably laughing their heads off, surreptitiously encouraging this because they'll be able to detect a sub by the trail of feminine products expelled (probably my overactive imagination at work). This would be great material for a tragic comedy.

Comment by mrsb on December 6, 2014 at 2:23pm

Well said tysmom and CO-twin.  There are many places women should be but on a sub is not one of them.  My son's opinion as well.

 
 
 

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