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Comment by Sierrascrapper (ETN2) on August 12, 2013 at 7:35pm

CO-twin I couldn't agree with you more...I'm so glad my son has made this choice and it is only a positive thing for his future.  That is why I so badly want Twin 1 to make a similar choice.  I see the tougher road ahead for Twin 1 who has chosen a different path. 

I have a hard time completely realizing that there are lots of people from many different backgrounds in the military and even though most of us are positive people, there are plenty of negative ones out there too. It's even harder to steer clear of the negative ones, but it is important to keep in mind that they will have an influence on you and may affect your attitude.  

I already know that I will have sad feelings and miss my son a lot as I went through a wide range of emotions when he left for MEPS to swear into DEP. Not a big deal I know...but for some reason I was a mess from the time I dropped him off until he got back home the next day. I couldn't even think straight at work and had a hard time concentrating on my job. It was almost like I was insane or something...I was so scattered.  And...I know I'm going to worry about him a lot too, just like us Moms ALWAYS do.  I don't believe I will have negative feelings as to what he is going through in BC even though he may tell me he doesn't like this or that.  As I think I've mentioned before...I was in NJROTC in high school and I went to a mini BC every spring break for all four years. I even went to a leadership mini BC that was a bit longer in the summer of my Junior year.  I experienced much of what the regular recruits go through and so I know what to expect.  I mean we did practically EVERYTHING that is mentioned in What Happens At BC, up to and including live fire of weapons on the range and the gas chamber along with the classes that the recruits have to take and we even did the Captain's Cup.  It was an incredible experience and I know that these kids who make it through BC and graduate will be better for it. I still keep asking myself why I didn't follow through and join the Navy after high school. I blame it on being young and ignorant...but then again...I probably wouldn't be married to my wonderful husband and have two wonderful boys if I would've taken that path.  

I believe it's a good thing to have sympathy for the Moms that have recruits that are struggling, but it's not healthy to think that your recruit is experiencing the same difficulties.  You know your child and you know what they can handle and you can't let someone else's experience influence your thoughts. Boot Camp is tough for a reason and the Navy wants the best of the best and you can't expect the Navy to work as a strong reliable force with a weak link.  Just have confidence in your recruit and turn your worries over to the Lord who is in control.  He has set your child on this path and He will lead them in the direction he has planned all along.

Comment by CO-TwinSalorsMom on August 12, 2013 at 5:45pm

3boysmom lucky to have your son on leave, that is one of the times us moms cherish. 

Comment by CO-TwinSalorsMom on August 12, 2013 at 5:06pm

OK first off I have been so excited for my boys on their choice and experiences. I think this was the best, they are getting an education that they could not have afforded, They are learning a lot of self discipline and respect, and they are maturing in a good way.  Sure I miss them however having your kids grow up to be on their own has been the goal. I still worry when they struggle and I will always be there fore them.  

keeping Cathy and 2xtrouble in my prayers today.

work has been busy today so haven't had time to read here much.

Cheat sheet I think there is getting to be so much personal stuff I think I ought to type it up to be emailed or copied to a PM from the friends end of this.

Good to hear from you 3 boys.   

Comment by 3boysmom on August 12, 2013 at 3:03pm

I think you ladies are right.  He feels comfortable at home to be a slob.  ha ha

I know how easy it is to get down sometimes when reading the posts.  Once in a while you may need to take a break from it so you don't go down as well.  Its so unpredictable, these feelings that we moms get.  One minute we feel confident and happy for them, the next, it's worries and sadness.  Just remember you're not alone.  We all go through it together.

Comment by Sierrascrapper (ETN2) on August 12, 2013 at 2:35pm

Oh Disy...so glad you listened to your hubby on that one. Don't let the Mommy worries get the best of you. I know what you mean though...and mine hasn't even left yet. It's easy to let the worries take control. Just remember that your daughter wants this and has prepared for this. She can rise up to the challenge! Keep your chin up and think about how GREAT your daughter will be once she gets through to PIR. I hope your form letter comes today.

I didn't think I would get a good response from the mad libs at my house but I guess I got lucky. Maybe they didn't get it because we understand what makes up the story line of the mad lib. Who knows. I'm going to test it out on a co-worker or two today. I might need to tweak it a bit more. Too funny about Twinkle 2 being helpful. I was always surprised when I heard that Twin 1 was always so helpful at his friend's or gf's house. I guess at least when you hear that, you know you did your job well in raising them :)

Comment by Disy (Ship12Div371) on August 12, 2013 at 2:14pm

3boysmom - I am sure you enjoyed your time with him regardless of his slovenly habits! LOL! I think Sierrascrapper is right - they know they are home! Twinkle 2 was staying with her boyfriends family and they texted me and told me she was such a help around the house!!!!! Whaaaat! Um think you might have the wrong twin!!

Didn't have a good day yesterday with one thing and another and then I made the mistake about reading about Ship 5 - now I have this irrational fear going on with absolutely no reason! The BC moms page depressed me no end with sad soulful posts from moms missing their kids I was beginning to be sucked in! Luckily my husband (he who should be obeyed but seldom is) snapped me out of it by reminding me that this wasn't about me!! The Mad libs lifted my spirits but have to confess that when I tried mine out on the said hubby and kids - I got told not to give up my day job!! As you can tell - I have raised and married into a tough audience!

Hope everyone is having a wonderful day - still no PIR letter but I am hopeful for tomorrow!

Comment by Sierrascrapper (ETN2) on August 12, 2013 at 12:49pm

3boysmom...YIPPEE for your son being on leave. Enjoy that special time with him. Too funny about his messiness at home. He probably just feels comfy enough at home to slide back into those habits that they broke him of in BC.

Comment by 3boysmom on August 12, 2013 at 12:44pm

Hi Ladies,

My thoughts go out to those taking their children today/this week.  you will get through it!  Ive been off line for a few days because my sailor is home on leave!!! Excited to have him home before he goes off to San Diego.  Of course, he's slipped back into a few bad habits.  His room looks like a hurricane went through it.  I guess he needs a little more time to grow up.  The Navy's done a good job with him on so many other fronts, I guess I can wait for a little more maturity to kick in.:)

Comment by Disy (Ship12Div371) on August 12, 2013 at 10:03am

Thinking of Doubletrouble and Cathy today xxxx

Love the Mad libs!!

Comment by doubletrouble on August 12, 2013 at 9:21am

The mad lib is awesome! We should all send it & compare what our SR sends back. Haha cathy, I agree about hoping they know what an adjective & verb are!
How are you doing cathy? Today is going to be really hard for the both of us, aren't you dropping your second one off today too? I will be thinking about you, in my mess of a brain I still think about all of you ladies & think how cool it is to have y'all as friends! I can't keep everyone straight as to kids gone or leaving, but I know when I say a prayer God knows my heart.
Co-twin, weren't you working on a cheat sheet? Did you get it finished? I really should print that out somehow for reference.
We take Jacob today @ 1:00, he will have some last minute paperwork, drug screen, then they will head out @ 2:00. He is the only one leaving from here this time so it will just be him & the recruiter. He will stay the night in the hotel in Amarillo then do his final MEPS & swear in tomorrow morning & fly to Dallas then on to Chicago:(

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