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Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Visite esta página para explorar en su idioma las oportunidades de educación y carreras para sus hijos en el Navy. Navy.com

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I signed up on this website because my daughter is married to a sailor.  They were married when he graduated from boot camp and she is pregnant with his child.  He is attending A school and she was all set to join him.  After many delays, he just told her that he did not want her to join him, that he was too young to be a husband and father and they were done.  Naturally, she is heartbroken.  I don't know what to do for her and I don't know what her rights are.  He is getting extra pay because he is married, but he will not send her any money.  She had to resign from her job due to the pregnancy so is not working.  Is there any legal advocate that she can access through the Navy?  Would they encourage him to provide some support for his wife?   We have a National Guard office here and she is going to see them for some advice, if any, but does anyone know if there is another recourse?  Should she call his base?  We are looking for any kind advice.  Thanks so much.

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Comment by MIL2JRP4 on November 22, 2011 at 7:18pm

Craig, thank you for taking the time to send this.  You, along with everyone else, have been so helpful.  Now, the latest news TODAY is:  He spoke with the Chaplain today and he is sooooo sorry and the Chaplain made him see that they could do it and be a family.  He said he has been very stressed out and the school is hard etc. etc. etc.  She is not rolling over but of course she wants things to be fixed...   We will see.  Thanks again for the help, sympathy and encouragement.

Comment by MIL2JRP4 on March 12, 2012 at 4:21pm

UPDATE

Dear All, I am sorry to be a pest but I have more information to put out there in hopes someone can give me some good advice on behalf of my daughter.  On November 21, 2011, I posted about the behavior of my son-in-law while he was attending A school and his rejection of my daughter etc.  He put them into over $6600 in debt, told her to give the baby up for adoption etc.  She contacted the chaplain for advice and it ended up that he was sorry and she moved to Groton the middle of January.  The baby was born February 17, 2012 but, because of the earlier behavior, his chief decided he was not sub base material and he became classed “undesignated airman”.  On February 29, 2012, he was sent to Pensacola for schooling (my daughter thinks for 1 month).  I went up to help my daughter (she had a c-section) on February 22, 2012 and left on February 28, 2012.  He left the next day and she was by herself.  He appeared to have totally turned over a new leaf and was happy to be a new dad, etc.  I wanted them to have every chance so I took out a loan and paid off their debt.  Yes, stupid.  I had him sign a promissory note with a pay schedule of $100 every payday.  My daughter called me on March 9, 2012.  Since February 29th, he has spent over $1000.  He refuses to speak with her. They are to move by April 3rd and were supposed to be scrimping to get an apartment because there is a waiting list for base housing.  He appears to be doing all the things he was doing before with no regard for his family.  She is stressed to the max and wanted to come home.  She is now back with me.

 

Everything in the house, furniture-wise, belongs to her.  The Navy moved it up there but she was told that they would not move it back home to Texas, only to the place in the orders which is Norfolk.  She is pretty much convinced that he is not going to be the responsible husband and father she envisioned and our family is recommending she get her stuff and divorce this guy.  Unfortunately, we are a household of women and driving a uhaul over 1800 miles, let alone loading up a house full of furniture, is not something we think we can handle.  Also, of course, this has been a very expensive experience for me and she has no money.  Does anyone have any suggestions on the move and/or legal issues?  Thanks for your help.

 

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