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barbrag replied to J71792's discussion 'OCS in November' in the group OCS Graduate Moms
"Hi Sherry, When they ‘have liberty’, are they allowed to leave base at all during the day? Just wondering if we were staying in the area, would our son be able to spend time with us off base even if he had to stay in base in the…"
Oct 12, 2023
A3XMOM left a comment for barbrag
"Yes! I'm in but I will say I couldn't access it on one computer, but was able to at work. I can see that you took it from 'hidden' to publicly viewable, but I had a hard time finding the group initially. Thanks for approving me!"
Sep 20, 2023
Sherryg left a comment for barbrag
"I checked with my son.  Here's the deal (at least as it was a year ago).  There is no training for the two weeks around Christmas.  The candidates have liberty of the base and if they are in the candio phase, may also be able to…"
Sep 19, 2023
Kim8 left a comment for barbrag
"Here's a LINK to the info I posted about Candio boxes.  I remember using the FB class groups before my son's as a gauge to what is allowed in the candio boxes. I'm vaguely remembering finding some details on either the OCS…"
Sep 19, 2023
Sherryg left a comment for barbrag
"Hi,   The navy is bad at communicating and things do seem to change all the time, but my experience was that the holiday leave meant that the length of the program extended by 2 weeks.   OCS training did not happen during that…"
Sep 19, 2023
Kim8 left a comment for barbrag
"I think both recruits & parents/friends might be hesitant to post & ask questions if both are in one group so you might want to encourage one of the recruits (maybe your son?) to have a separate group for themselves. I've seen recruit…"
Sep 19, 2023
A3XMOM left a comment for barbrag
"It's odd, the group was undiscoverable last night on my home computer and ipad, but I was able to easily access it at work today. My membership is pending. Thanks so much!"
Sep 19, 2023
M's mom left a comment for barbrag
"barbrag:  When my son was DQ'd from flight, he was given the option to leave OCS and the Navy with no obligation, which he DIDN'T want to do.   I think he was given limited options to transfer to, because there had to be…"
Sep 18, 2023
A3XMOM left a comment for barbrag
"My son is starting OCS in October, as well! I'm still poking around this site for info. Best of luck to your son/daughter!"
Sep 18, 2023
Kim8 left a comment for barbrag
"Sure, you're welcome. I remember searching for information on the OCS process; it was so hard to find details. I think they do that on purpose so it adds to the intimidation factor for the candidates. :) You have some great advice from M's…"
Sep 16, 2023
M's mom left a comment for barbrag
"barbrag,  My son also went to OCS as an SNA candidate, but even though he passed all the required medical physicals beforehand, when he got to OCS, the pilot candidates were given a flight physical which included a full body scan.  It…"
Sep 15, 2023
M's mom left a comment for barbrag
"barbrag:  The only FB page I found was "Naval Education and Training Command." That says it is based in Pensacola, FL, so it's apparently not specific to Newport OCS.  OCS used to have its own FB page and they would post…"
Sep 14, 2023
Sherryg left a comment for barbrag
"Yes - exactly -- they had a two week leave from about December 23 to January 6.  They had the choice of spending either the first or the second week in Newport and the other week at home.  We didn't find out until early December, so…"
Sep 14, 2023
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet) left a comment for barbrag
"You might also like to join these groups: OCS Graduate Moms Moms of Officers"
Sep 12, 2023
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"Welcome to NAVYforMoms.com!    Head to “Settings” on the main page right away to add a profile image (no last names visible, please) and complete your Profile. Then - and this is important! - read these Community…"
Sep 12, 2023

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Originally from Nebraska. I got married and moved to the UK in the early 1990s. My husband is Greek and both of our kids were born and raised in England.
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Waiting to attend Officer Candidate School
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At 8:02pm on September 20, 2023, A3XMOM said…

Yes! I'm in but I will say I couldn't access it on one computer, but was able to at work. I can see that you took it from 'hidden' to publicly viewable, but I had a hard time finding the group initially. Thanks for approving me!

At 8:39pm on September 19, 2023, Sherryg said…

I checked with my son.  Here's the deal (at least as it was a year ago).  There is no training for the two weeks around Christmas.  The candidates have liberty of the base and if they are in the candio phase, may also be able to go into town.  They may, if they choose, leave Newport for a week, but that would count as leave time.  Since they accumulate leave while in training, he felt it didn't make much difference,  Sorry to have had it wrong. 

At 10:38am on September 19, 2023, Kim8 said…

Here's a LINK to the info I posted about Candio boxes. 

I remember using the FB class groups before my son's as a gauge to what is allowed in the candio boxes. I'm vaguely remembering finding some details on either the OCS website or OCS FB group but can't remember exactly.

At 10:36am on September 19, 2023, Sherryg said…

Hi,  

The navy is bad at communicating and things do seem to change all the time, but my experience was that the holiday leave meant that the length of the program extended by 2 weeks.   OCS training did not happen during that period.  The candidates had two weeks leave -- one week on base and the other at home -- and they had a choice of which week to take at home.  It didn't affect their post-training leave.  And yes yes yes re Appendix B -- there is nnly so much of the OCS stress that can be managed before they go and they are in a much better place if they are prepared on that.

At 10:26am on September 19, 2023, Kim8 said…

I think both recruits & parents/friends might be hesitant to post & ask questions if both are in one group so you might want to encourage one of the recruits (maybe your son?) to have a separate group for themselves. I've seen recruit groups become F&F after OCS starts but I've also seen separate groups. 

That's fantastic that your son is preparing so well. It's such a mental game there that I honestly think the memorization part is so critical to have beforehand. Plus they are exhausted by all the physical that memorizing while there is so tough.

How interesting that they have to report a week early. Yeah, it's anyone's guess why they change things. The Navy is notorious for that even once the sailors are at their duty station so you all will want to mentally adjust/prepare for that. :)

Good thought in US VPN. Wow, what an added element to navigate being overseas.

I will send another message with my notes on Candio boxes; I think there are limits on how long these msgs can be. 

At 9:16am on September 19, 2023, A3XMOM said…

It's odd, the group was undiscoverable last night on my home computer and ipad, but I was able to easily access it at work today. My membership is pending. Thanks so much!

At 9:14pm on September 18, 2023, M's mom said…

barbrag:  When my son was DQ'd from flight, he was given the option to leave OCS and the Navy with no obligation, which he DIDN'T want to do.   I think he was given limited options to transfer to, because there had to be space available for him in the training program he chose.  There were others in his class who were also DQ'd.  One of them I remember went to aircraft maintenance, because he still wanted to be around planes. 

At 7:25pm on September 18, 2023, A3XMOM said…

My son is starting OCS in October, as well! I'm still poking around this site for info. Best of luck to your son/daughter!

At 10:13am on September 16, 2023, Kim8 said…

Sure, you're welcome. I remember searching for information on the OCS process; it was so hard to find details. I think they do that on purpose so it adds to the intimidation factor for the candidates. :) You have some great advice from M's mom in your comments. I would 2nd the being physically ready & doubly stress the importance of knowing "Appendix B" before getting there. It is such a stressful environment that it's so helpful to have a lot of that memorized beforehand. 

I'm glad you went ahead & made the FB group. People will find it, especially once their child has left for OCS. You might want to add to the title or put in the description that it's for friends & family. I think the chatter is very different when it's a group for the candidates vs for family & friends. 

The FB page for OCS is "Officer Training Command Newport". Search for that & you'll find it. You might get lucky & see a photo posted of your son once he's there but you can also see progress through the different evolutions of previous classes. They don't give a ton of details but there is some info.

Make sure you know about CandiO boxes. They are a real fun way to celebrate when your son reaches that stage. I did a post about them that I can look for if you need details.

Your son will have to sign up for phone calls once he gets to that point. He won't get phone privileges until after INDOC(trination) phase which is 3 weeks. The phone calls are only 10 minutes & go by really fast but still wonderful.

I posted what I could remember of the the whole 13 week program after my son when through in 2020-2021. I'm happy to send that to you if you haven't found it yet. Some things might have changed but I think they generally keep the same format.

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At 11:50pm on September 15, 2023, M's mom said…

barbrag,  My son also went to OCS as an SNA candidate, but even though he passed all the required medical physicals beforehand, when he got to OCS, the pilot candidates were given a flight physical which included a full body scan.  It showed he had a minor heart valve anomaly, which was not life threatening, nor disqualifying from the Navy, but it did DQ him from flight!  He was very disappointed, but was allowed to remain at OCS and switch "designators."  He chose intelligence, and he has enjoyed it very much.  I think it was a blessing in disguise, because I think he is MUCH better suited to intel than pilot anyway, but just my "Momsense."   He has taken private pilot lessons on his own since then. (Private license medical is not quite as strict as military.)   So, that has scratched his itch to fly.   If something similar happens to your son, tell him all is not lost.

The best advice I could give your son is to use the time before he reports to get in the best physical shape he can.  Some candidates even hire personal trainers to get them in shape to meet the standards on pushups, running and curl ups.  It will be much easier on him if he reports to OCS already in excellent physical shape.  Also, he must memorize all the military knowledge (called "the gouge") that his recruiter should supply him with.  It will be much easier on him if he knows all of this perfectly by memory.  There are always some candidates who show up to OCS unprepared physically and mentally and don't last.

Also, if you plan to attend your son's OCS graduation (which I highly recommend---so PROUD!) do not buy plane tickets too early, or at least not unchangeable tickets based on his presumed graduation date.  If a candidate gets sick or injured, or fails a physical fitness test, or an inspection, or a written test, they can be "rolled" back to the class behind them.  This gives them time to recover, or get up to speed on whatever skills they are lacking.  This means they will not graduate with their original class, but with the class they rolled back to.  So, beware of making travel plans too soon, unless they are flexible.  

Make sure you and other family do not send him anything he is not allowed to have, other than letters.  Until the last few weeks when they are "CandiOs" (Candidate Officers,) they cannot receive any food or treats or anything considered "contraband."  It will be confiscated, and sometimes they can even be punished with hundreds of pushups, even if they did not ask for it to be sent!  This exact thing happened to one in my son's class when his well-meaning auntie sent him baked treats!   He had to do 300 pushups!!!    This is why the Facebook groups ahead of your son's class can be helpful.  They can tell you when they are allowed to receive more than just letters.   Yes, paper letters!   Unless things have changed, they were not allowed to do email until the last weeks of OCS.  It tortured my son to have to write paper letters by hand, so we didn't get very many!!  ha-ha

 
 
 

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