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**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

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My husband just left on the 14th of this month and today I feel so lonely and depress that If I talk with him I going to please ask him to come home. I know that's not good. But that's the way I feel right know. Please I need some support :(

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Oh goodness do I know how you feel! I had never been away from my husband for more than a few days before, and it has killed me then even. We have a 1 year old daughter together who asks for her daddy quite often, and he has a 6 year old daughter whome he had before we were together. So here I am living the life that we once had together with two little girls who miss their daddy. I not only have to be strong for him, but strong for these little angels as well! Talk about the hardest thing I have done in my life! We all want them to come home, but as SentryMom has said, just try to keep yourself busy! I'm not sure if you have kids of your own, but if so they will surely keep you busy. If not take the time each day to learn new Military words, write encouraging and uplifting letters to the man who is working VERY hard to make your life together better, and pick up a hobby! Think about it as this. Your husband is going through some serious life changes right now, all for the better. So next time you see him, you want to show him that you have picked up a few nice tricks while he was gone too. Sounds weird, but my husband loves his smoothies with whey protein in the mornings for breakfast, so while I was out shopping for groceries a couple of days ago I seen this cute little recipe book for summer drinks, and smoothies at the checkout counter. So I got that, and every day I practice making these drinks so that when we are together again I will be able to make some yummy new drinks for him to enjoy for breakfast :0) I have also (in between screams from the children) been trying to slowly get the house organized and ready for the big move to where he is going to be stationed for A School. It gives me something to do and it makes me feel like I am preparing to live with my husband again. If you have anywhere to do so gardening is a WONDERFUL way to relieve stress and anxiety. Unfortunately I have nowhere to do so, as I am in a 3rd story apartment. I may get a few pots and plant flowers for my back balcony though. As hard as it is, just tell yourself to use the time wisely and work on improving things around you, and yourself too. You officially have the time to do so. Good luck, and best wishes!

---Jessica D.

Just a small detail: not every A school is long enough for a dependent move.   Do you know the rate he signed up for?  We could help you figure out where he'll be training, and if you will be eligible for a paid Navy move there, or if you'll be waiting for his orders to a permanent duty station.

Thanks for the advice Jessica , my husband left march 13 and our daughter is only month, it was bad where i ddnt eat and hardly slept, but I'm glad I'm not the only one that feels this way
My husband also began basic on the 14th!

I sent my 20yo son to boot camp on March 14 as well.  I also am the wife of an active duty Army officer.  It is the second marriage for both, and we have four nearly grown children between us.  Being a military spouse can be hard but wonderful all at once.  You will move a lot, but that can be exciting.  You will travel all over the states and the world!  I recommend living on base when you can - you will meet lots of other military wives that way.  There are so many activities and benefits to take advantage of as well - the Navy keeps their best men and women by being sure the family is happy as well as the sailor.  I am sure this very early phase is terribly hard, but keep busy and it will pass, and soon it will be time to go meet him at PIR and then on to your new life!:)

There are groups here for wives and GFS, you'll find lots of support there too.

Here is one:

http://www.navyformoms.com/group/girlfriendsfianceswivesofsailors

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