My second son just left at the spur of the moment yesterday. 8/30/12

[Facebook PIR11/2]

Hello, My second son Ben, just left yesterday for bootcamp. His recruiter called and gave us three hours to have him ready to leave. His original DOD was scheduled for November. I am still in shock. My oldest son just graduated bootcamp in April of this year. It's so hard because ben had to leave so soon and didn't have enough time to do anything like quit his job, open a bank acct., study the Navy Creed, etc... I'm praying that he is okay. He sounded scared to death when he called last night to say he made it there okay. This hurts so much when they leave. Praying for all of. :)

[MamaLamaDingDong: AO/Pensacola]

We're headed to BC graduation in 2 weeks and so I haven't been responding much to the posts on groups outside of our PIR group, but your post went straight to my heart and had the tears flowing! I will be lifting you and your sons in prayer, especially Ben!

[Tazdeana]

I am so sorry to hear that.  My son had to leave 2 hours early & I felt so ripped off.  I can't imagine what you must be feeling.  Good luck!

[Facebook PIR11/2]

  Thank you all so much, It helps to talk with people that understand how this feels. Alcbcc he was in the DEP program. Apparently, someone dropped out that was supposed to ship and my son was put in his spot. The recruiter mentioned a couple of weeks ago that sometimes they have slots to fill if others drop out but we had no idea it would be a few hours notice. I would definitely ask your recruiters if this could happen. I feel like our recruiter was being pressured by his chief. It's horrible, it really is. Especially after seeing my son get on the plane as pale as a ghost and in pure shock as to what had just happened. This is going to take me a few days to get over. I am very proud of my precious boys being in the Navy and I do trust the process but I would have loved to have had the time with my dear son. Thank you all again.

 

[PaulaKylesMom (JapanNavyMom)]

Omg I am so sorry. I would have lost it!! Our date moved from October to August but we knew in June! This is the craziest thing I've ever heard of!! Here of you want to talk!!

[JackieD]

My heart goes out to you and your son.  Reading this put tears in my eyes.  You and your son will be in my prayers.  I could only imagine the shock to him and you and how you're both feeling.

But on a positive note, one thing to look forward to is he'll be graduating at the end of October or early November and starting his Navy career a bit sooner.  I hope this helps a little.

Hang in there!  We are here for you to share feelings and get through boot camp.  My son graduated in March, but I still feel like I have to stay on here to share/help others.

[Facebook PIR11/2]

Thank you so much for your prayers, Paula and Jackie also. Yes Jackie, that does help a lot. I keep telling myself I'll be able to see him for the holidays now so, that's a big blessing out of this nightmare. I'm just so worried about his feelings and the thoughts running through his head. I can't get the look of fear in his eyes out of my head. I have so much to tell him to make him feel better and I won't have the chance for weeks and he'll already be past this. I'm praying that this will be behind us soon. I remember another mother of a son in boot camp said she "only counts the Fridays" so I'm going to try that. God Bless you all! Thank You, from the botom of my heart!

[JackieD]

Start writing it all down, put everything you want to tell him now in letters to him.  Even thought he won't get the first one for a couple of weeks, at least you "get it off your chest" so to speak.  My son said that the letters helped so much to get him through boot camp.  He'll see that you've been thinking of him and praying for his well being the whole time and being encouraging.  I told my son in every letter that I pray everyday for God to keep him safe and healthy. So true that by the time he writes to you, all those feelings will have totally changed.  It's quite an emotional journey, but one that has a great ending.

Also, number the corner of the envelope.  That way, he knows which order to read them.

[Tina (4/9/12)]

Hi, Jim&Bens mom, my heart went out to you when I read your post.  I am telling you that is one on the reasons I dislike the military. You just never know when that shoe is going to drop. I understand it but I don't like it. My prayers are with all of you. It is a trying time but you will get thru it.  One day at a time just try and stay busy.  Good luck.

[Facebook PIR11/2]

Thank you, Tina and Jackie. I will definitely start writing all of this angst down, I agree, Jackie it will help to get it off my chest. Thank you for all the suggestions! God BlessYou All! <3<3 

[Barbydahlzz ALUM 09/075 USS JPJ]

Holy CRAP girl!!!!! my son PIR'd last March. He DEP'd for EVER ... but in the middle of DEP he did get that call that said " do you want to go this weekend?" he said " OH YEA" that gave me 3 days ... but it didn't happen scared the crap out of me.. I CAN' NOT IMAGINE what you just went thru... Your roller coaster is starting all over again with out warning.... but you know the routine now.... HOPEFULLY it wont be as bad.... BRAVO ZULU to your boys and your family!!! Just think... in a couple months....... BACK TO CHICAGO!!!! I'm still trying to convince my younger son to do the same thing. hugs to you !!

[Facebook PIR11/2]

Thank you, barbydahlzz, I have definitely been on a roller coaster for the last couple of days. I'm praying that he is doing well. Praying for ALL of our sailors!! :)

[Barbydahlzz ALUM 09/075 USS JPJ]

Im sure he is doing fine...he's been there a few days now and is probably adjusting just fine... Take a deep breath... the "Kid in a box minus the kid" is coming soon.... hugs to you