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All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

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**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

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**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

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Hello everyone I am melissa and I am 22 yrs old and the mother to a sweet baby boy who is 11 months old. I am getting married this April and have been looking into joining active duty for about 6 months. I have no military in my family and my fiancés parents haven't been supportive of this so I am looking elsewhere for support. I have talked to many people in the navy but I have yet to meet one women with a child who is active duty. I am doing this for my family and myself but I'm wondering how everyone knew the navy was right for them. I spoke with a recruiter from each branch and I still strongly feel the navy is right for me but I am still battling with the deployment times and what to chose for my job. Any help is appreciated thank you

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As a single parent, you are only eligible to join as a reservist.  Once you are married, you would then be eligible to join as full active duty.  

That's the reason you haven't met any single Navy moms.  

Oh yes I am getting married in April I am not a single mom I haven't met any moms who are active duty with a child I meant :)

Thanks for the clarification.  

To the Navy, if you're not married then you're technically single whether or not you are still with the father.  They don't recognize fiancee's officially.  But, there are lots of moms in the military, I was one.  Now I'm just a wife as hubby is still in and has been for 13 years.  Sometimes I feel like I'm single though, does that count?? LOL  It's good that you already are prepared for leaving on deployment it will be tough but you'll manage I'm sure.  Good luck on your journey and keep us posted!

I have lots of friends who are Sailors and moms.  Yes, at times its hard for them, but it's also hard for dads sometimes too.  If this is something you want to do, and if your fiancee is supportive, you can make it work!

Thank you!!! Yes he is very supportive, just nervous which I totally understand. It's going to be a complete flip flop in our lives, I used to work full time until I had my little boy now i stay home and he works full time as a landscaper. he would of course be staying home with my son being the primary care taker while I am away. His main concern is the deployment aspect of course and its so hard for me too but it's something I need to do for my family.

One thing though, and you will need to check with your recruiter, but as Anti M said, enlisting as a single parent nowadays is basically impossible. You are either going to have to wait to start the process once you are married (and yes, married and one kid, you can join - the recruiter just has to do extra work), or you might have to legally give full custody of your child to your fiancee. Best bet is to get married then go talk to the recruiters and start the process.

But, like I said, there are lots of moms in the Navy. Some are single parents (had kids after they were in), some are dual military with kids, and some, their husband has either gotten out / retired from the military, or was never in the military to begin with.

Just make sure you are ok with being able to leave your baby and deploy and etc, because the Navy will not give you special treatment with that because you're a mom (any more than they do dads).

Good luck to you with this, and congrats on your little one :-)

Yep I am doing the DEP, we are getting married in one month so I am taking my time to study until after we are married then I will be headed off to MEPS! thank you for the info!
It will be tough being away from him but the sacrifices have to be made in order to improve our quality of life in the future! I understand I will receive no special treatment and I know my son will be well taken care of by his father while I am away! :) thank you so much!

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