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**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

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**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

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I'm a married mother of two boys and I'm considering joining the Navy MYSELF. I've been hardpressed trying to find others like me. I did get in contact with a gal who is my age (almost 30) and she is married but has no children. I'm curious about family life in the Navy. My relatives think that having a family and being in the military is practically unheard of...though, no one bats an eyelash when it's the father going in. Thoughts? Advice? My ASVAB is coming right up.

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First, you will need a waiver because you have more than two dependents.  Shouldn't be an issue, just be aware.

I knew a few active duty moms, wasn't one myself.  

Your husband will need to be the primary caregiver for long periods of time.  Not only will you be away for boot camp, but for schools of up to a year, and then once in the fleet, you can potentially deploy for months at a time... six to ten months.  You will not get time off for their illnesses, special events, school, or medical appointments.  Well, maybe now and then.  Maybe.  You will need top notch daycare or your husband will need to be a stay at home.  The Navy might facilitate on base child care, but it certainly doesn't guarantee or pay for it.  If your family can handle this, then go for it.  Many couples find this a workable scenario.

I've also seen couples who move one of their moms in to be the caregiver.  Hmmm.

 I get edgy when I hear about moms joining, then try to  refuse to deploy because they didn't think they'd be separated from their kids!  Not saying that's you, but it has happened and is not good for the image of sailor moms at all.  Don't be that person, yeah?

Tough call, but it really depends on your family situation. During my husband's 30 year Navy career, I often called myself a single parent who didn't have to wait for child support. The reality is that hubby was gone for the majority of our daughters' lives. This isn't to say that you can't handle it, but you need to be aware of the reality of Navy life. Moves are another reality. Depending on the ages of your children, they may wind up changing schools frequently. My family thrived in this environment, yours can, too.

You will need to have a serious talk with your husband about how his role and responsibilities will change if you decide to enlist. This has to be a decision that the two of you make together since it is going to place a much heavier burden on him than most spouses anticipate.

Best of luck to you, whatever you decide to do!

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