I have no earthly idea...It doesn't help that i'm about as computer illiterate as they come....My son did all that for me, and without him, I can hardly navigate my way on this site! Afraid i'm violating privacy rules by asking certain questions. I'm so lost....Tonight was my first night back to work since he left, and I cried on the drive in. I just never know when its gonna hit me, I'm fine one minute, then teary the next?? I don't know if this makes a difference, but he is a reservist, he is not active duty...I don't know if this affects when he goes to A school, or any of that stuff.
I know what you mean about the waves of sadness! It seems to be getting better as the days go by...I am feeling more like, this is what he chose to do and he is happy about it, so I should be too! I also grow prouder of him by the moment! I hope everything works out well for you and your son!