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Comment by Steph Proud AG Mom on July 11, 2013 at 12:52pm

To Everyone else here.. remember, every SR goes through things differently, mine didn't mind being in seps..I know it's hearbreaking, but I promise, you will be ok, and when you get to hold your SR's for the first time, it's amazing,, so take a deep breath, and do something for yourselves.. renew your energy.. You all deserve it!

Comment by Steph Proud AG Mom on July 11, 2013 at 12:49pm

Donnad, I am on the fb group also.. you will find our Admins are amazing!  My daughter has been home a week now- I love being able to call her whenever I want, to hug her and kiss her goodnight...she got home on July 3rd.. it was an amazing 4th of july for us! 

Comment by donnad on July 11, 2013 at 8:30am

diannep and Marylou - thank you!  It is such a blessing to be able to share with other moms/dads/loved ones going through the same thing.  My son was doing well but unfortunately has seemed to hit a wall.  We are struggling but will get through.  Just found this FB page that was created and am hoping to find some solace in that community as well.  Hoping to keep in touch, too, with you all, as we have this common bond. 

https://www.facebook.com/groups/535221726514465/

Comment by diannep on July 11, 2013 at 8:07am

donnad:  I find your posts on here to the ladies so very positive and inspiring!  I hope that you can continue to stay on this group to help others through!  So glad that your son is moving on with his life and doing well!

Comment by donnad on July 11, 2013 at 7:17am

Jo(Bre's mom) I'm so sorry you are having to go through this.  My son has been home for a few weeks now after being separated from the Navy.  He, too, told me in his first phone call home from Ship 5 that he was a failure.  Same thing, too, - he said they ripped his name tags off his uniforms and threw them away.  He picked them out of the basket and brought them home to me, and I cherish them.  The decision our children made to enlist and serve their country is one that is nothing short of admirable.  Their time (although short) in BC is tough but it makes them strong.  As far as I am concerned, those that must endure time on Ship 5 are heroes, as the Separation experience is difficult.  Your daughter cannot have visitors while on Ship 5 but she can write, has free time to read, watch movies; she will even be allowed 'internet' time (for a fee).  My son would give this advice - ask for a job or two while on Ship 5 - it helps to pass the time.  He was in charge of laundry for his separation division.  As hard as it is to be positive, try to make friends within your SEPS division.  He still keeps in touch with two young men from FL who were with him during his time on Ship 5.  Write!  If your daughter does not have $, send her some, as they need it to purchase snacks, phonecard, etc., even internet time while in SEPS.  She will be able to phone you a couple of times each week.  If you have other questions, please don't hesitate to friend me on FB  Donna Giroux Dickinson.  I'm looking for some help, myself, if any of you moms are coping with children who have been home from SEPS for some time. 

Wishing you all well.  For those who will see their sons/daughters within the next couple of weeks - I'm SO HAPPY FOR YOU.  To be able to hold them again is a wonderful feeling. 

Comment by Jo(Bre's mom) Ship 02, DIV 939 on July 10, 2013 at 10:59pm

She called crying...is now on ship 5...she said it is very scary. Said they ripped her name tag off her uniform...she says she is such a failure! I tried to assure her she was amazing to fight so hard to stay! I am beside myself! I can't help! Can she have visitors? Can a friend bring her home to me when its time?

Comment by mattsmom on July 10, 2013 at 9:26pm

I joined the FB group mentioned by Kathy(Momof'IT'Marshall). Thanks for that info! My son has been in ship 5 since June 7th, which was also the day he GRADUATED!!! He finally has some word that he may be able to come home within the next 2 weeks. I want to be excited but I'm skeptical. I think I'll believe it when I see the whites of his eyes!!

Comment by Chantily6971 on July 10, 2013 at 9:24pm

Can some of you guys Facebook friend request me?  Donna Cummings, Pleasant Hill, CA.  My son is still there.

Comment by Chantily6971 on July 10, 2013 at 9:19pm

Hal's Mom, if you are on Facebook, that is good because they are allowed on there at least 3 times per week if they pay 5 dollars, so it is the fastest way to communicate

Comment by Chantily6971 on July 10, 2013 at 9:17pm

If she gets put onto ship 5 you will hear immediately.  They have to allow the one phone call.

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