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All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018.
Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)
Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC
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Maybe it depends on which boat and what it is doing out there, but I never have any idea when my son's submarine is either leaving or coming back. I knew the boat went out when we were in Hawaii together and the only reason he was not on it was he was on leave, that after his leave was over he would be going out the next time it went out, but that's it. I sort of figure he is out there when all communication ceases for weeks at a time.
Well now I know. Got next to no warning of my son's boat departing. Got a nice call from him though. Hope he does not get sea sick. He always got car sick.
I should add that if they don't elect to take leave, they should still normally have weekends off while the other crew has the boat and watchstanding duties.
Linda - There are always exceptions to the norm in that area, but normally when a boomer crew returns from a patrol they turn the boat over to the other crew within a few days of their return. After crew turnover, the other crew is now responsible for the watchstanding. While one crew has the watchstanding responsibility, both crews share the work of the refit period before the other crew takes the boat out. Normally, after returning from patrol and crew turnover, the members of the off-going crew are encouraged to take leave for the first couple of weeks of the refit.
My son has only been out once. I believe we had either 24-48 hours notice. It wasn't even close to enough time for us (Montana) to make plan to come see the homecoming. I think it would have been easier on me if I would have just received the phone call "hi mom I'm back". I waited around all day waiting for that phone call expecting it while I was at work, needless to say I was pretty bummed out that day, I did finally receive the phone call at 3:00 A.M. Now that I know a little bit more I won't let it get to me the next time. Sounded like they are busy when they come in. I understand this so it won't let it bother me the next time. I've learned not to count on anything always allow things to change and keep the attitude "no news is good news".
Cath - My son has been on 4 underways. It was different for each one. The first underway we got 3 days notice of his return day. The second and third we had an approximate date ahead of time that ended up being not accurate by several days late which made me nervous even though they had told us that could happen. And this last underway he came back a week early with no notice at all. Just a phone call out of the blue saying "Hi Mom we are back" !
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