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Melissa
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Started this discussion. Last reply by WearsLargeHats Jul 30, 2019. 4 Replies

I haven't heard from my daughter since the 10th of July. It's her first deployment. Just wondered if there are any moms out there that have been through this. I'm sure it's normal not to hear from…Continue

 

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WearsLargeHats replied to Melissa's discussion 'Email'
"If your daughter is on a SSBN deterrent patrol, welcome to the Silent Service. 3 weeks is early yet. You may not hear from her for a couple of months, especially if she is still working on dolphin quals. They technically have email but it is limited…"
Jul 30, 2019
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet) replied to Melissa's discussion 'Email'
"Hi Melissa - like ellen said it's not uncommon for you to not have much contact while on deployment.  Depending on your daughters job she might not have access to computers very often and when she does have free time she might be so tired…"
Jul 30, 2019
Phoenixmom replied to Melissa's discussion 'Email'
"Hi Melissa Welcome, if your Daughter arrived on the 10th that makes the 17th or 18th her 5th business day of arrival she would have taken her first PFA. If you haven't received a call then all must be good meaning she must of passed. Usually…"
Jul 30, 2019
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I haven't heard from my daughter since the 10th of July. It's her first deployment. Just wondered if there are any moms out there that have been through this. I'm sure it's normal not to hear from her, but I'm beginning to worry.
Jul 30, 2019
Melissa left a comment for Melissa
"It's been awhile since I've posted anything. Things are going good. My daughter was sent to school in Connecticut. Then was stationed in kings bay Georgia. She is now on her 1st deployment. I just received a email from her. All is well,…"
Jun 17, 2019

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At 6:34am on June 17, 2019, Melissa said…
It's been awhile since I've posted anything. Things are going good. My daughter was sent to school in Connecticut. Then was stationed in kings bay Georgia. She is now on her 1st deployment. I just received a email from her. All is well, she's just very busy and is learning a lot. My question is how to send a reply. I was told it has to be done in a certain way or it won't be received. Thanks...Mel
At 2:06pm on January 3, 2019, lemonelephant said…

Since you have a Sailor, you can change "At Boot Camp now" above to “Enlisted.” 

If you get an error message, then look at the area/s in the error message and unclick all of the choices in the area/s and make choices closer to the question/s. Some choices may have changed since you joined.

At 12:11am on December 16, 2018, Anna said…

Melissa,

Oh wow!!!  I sure hope they do something about her being so cold!!  That can't help if she is sick!!  Hope and pray she gets better soon and doesn't have to get set back!!!  Keep me posted!!!!

At 4:24pm on December 15, 2018, Anna said…

I'm so glad you got your letter!!!  Getting a leadership role in bootcamp is a good thing - congratulations to her!!!  Hope everything else continues going smoothly for her!!!

At 10:57pm on December 8, 2018, Anna said…

Thank you for the friend request.  Let me know if there is anything else I can help you with!!!!!

At 10:31pm on December 4, 2018, lemonelephant said…

Since your recruit has a contract for Machinist's Mate (Submarines) (MMS), join Sub Moms and GROTON, CT. SUBSCHOOL & "A" SCHOOL MOMS and check out the group, Machinest Mates, and Naval Submarine Base New London Facebook Page.

The Rating Information Card for MMS can be found at https://www.cool.navy.mil/usn/enlisted/rating_info_cards/mmss.pdf. (If you get the security warning, it is safe to go there.)  

Your Sailor will most likely fly out to "A" School the day after PIR. Plan to leave late Saturday or on Sunday. See PIR Day and Liberty during PIR Weekend to help you know how to plan your weekend. 

Your Sailor can be assigned to either MM-AUX (Machinist Mate for maintenance and repair of auxiliary equipment), which is also called Machinist's Mate Engineering (MME) (See https://www.thebalancecareers.com/navy-enlisted-rating-job-descriptions-3345837 for more info.), or MM-WEP (Machinist Mate for submarine weapons), which is also called Machinist's Mate Weapons (MMW) (See http://www.navydep.com/forums/showthread.php?t=3665 for more info.), during the training pipeline. The assignment can be made prior to boot camp or during "A" School.

At 8:55pm on December 4, 2018, lemonelephant said…

Divisions 065 an066 are brother divisions and train together and will have Battle Stations-21 (BST) together, so look for others with loved ones in either division. Write to your recruit and ask when Battle Stations-21 (BST) will be so you will know when to expect the "I'm a Sailor!" call.

At 12:03am on November 18, 2018, Anna said…

Oh Melissa, it is hard not hearing from them.  I remember when my daughter was in years ago, that she only had Sundays to write letters but if she had other things to take care of like uniforms, or extra study, she had to use her Sundays to do those things!!!!  Once things start rolling a little smoother for her and her division, she should have some more control over her time and be able to write!!!  I hope you hear from her soon.  But if you have her address start sending those letters to her.  Keep them upbeat and positive and encouraging!!!  They live for hearing from home!!!  Number your envelopes so if she gets several letters at once she can read them in order.  Good luck to your girl!!!

At 10:31pm on November 17, 2018, Anna said…

Melissa,

I see you recently joined the Moms of Daughters 2 group and I want to welcome you!!  We are a close, friendly, supportive group of Moms and look forward to getting to know you and your sailor.  I see you are new to N4Ms and your daughter is in boot camp now?  I'm happy to see you left a post on our group page, Please feel free to ask any questions you may have, talk freely about your feelings, fears or concerns, or just chat about life.  We are all in different phases of our daughter’s Naval careers - from newbies to those whose daughters have been in for several years - from officer to enlisted!!! We support all our sailor girls and each other as well. Not just during the Bootcamp days but the weeks and months following, as they go off to school, first duty station, or first deployment.  Let us support you when you're missing her, lend an ear when you need to vent, and celebrate with you when you want to brag!!  Again, Welcome Aboard!!!!!

At 2:14am on November 12, 2018, Melissa said…
Hi. My daughter entered the Navy on Nov. 7th. How do I get her address so I can write to her?
 
 
 

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