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Am I the only one here who's totally relaxed about sending my child to boot camp?

There are a LOT of posts from mothers worried/stressed about their sons or daughters going to boot camp, I'm just looking for a little reassurance that I am not the only one who has no problem with my child leaving?

I've helped him study and "encouraged" him to keep up his PT so that when he goes he will be ready to take that test and make E-2 right away. I'm very comfortable with letting him go.I feel he's ready. I'd send him tomorrow if I thought he was ready for the test and was sure he could still get the same job.

Is it because we did this once already, sending him off to college last summer (2008)? I was just as relaxed then, too. A hug and a goodbye, a minute of tears as I watch him leave, and he's gone. Out of sight, out of mind, except for letters or phone calls.

Is it because I went to boot camp myself, I know what it's like, so it holds no fears for me?

Mostly I'm eager to hear about what he learns, how boot camp has changed from my experience, fun and outrageous stories, and to hear of his future adventures.

So, is there anyone else out there who feels the same way I do: pride that my son is ready to make a major step towards independent adulthood with a touch of relief that he isn't going to stay home forever?

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I just sent my son yesterday to boot camp. I am very proud and happy for him! I feel he is making a great choice for his future. I had some tears seeing him leave. We are both ready for his next phase in life. I know he will excell!
Wow, I had to make sure that your post wasn't made by me. Of course I am not as relaxed because I'm a worrier by nature. Plan for the worst and hope for the best etc. But I am torn between anxious and excited for my son. He too went to college last year and now boot camp next week. Truthfully, I don't think I was as anxious until I began reading the forums here. I had no idea that the Navy treated its recruits as disposable, at least that is what it sounds like when Moms talk about their sons or daughters who were separated due to medical events that occurred in boot camp.
Thank for your post!
Sheryl
I am very proud of my son's choice. I cannot be sad because this was his choice and he was/is very excited about the opportunities that await him.
No you are not the only one that was relaxed about the boot camp so was I. I am more nervous about the schooling.
If your son got through boot camp, he is going to be fine through A schooling! It depends upon him, now, to do the work or not. He'll get dropped from A school if he doesn't put in the time and effort. He is the one who should be nervous, not you!!! The A schoolers receive lots of good support when they are doing well.
I just sent my son to boot cmp Nov. 22. His recruiter said that I was one one the best mom's he's ever had because I was so calm and happy. I just feel that this is the best thing that my son can do. It seems to be a postitive event in a negative economy/world. I'm really looking forward to seeing him graduate in Feburary 2010. Jessica
Yes I must say I was glad my son had finally made it to boot camp;I was not too nervous,I knew he would make it. He was interested in this for a long time,being in the cadets then having family members in the army and navy I was proud he made this choice. I worked with him as did his recruiter to help him succeed,he lost 80 lbs. and studied hard to get there. I was more nervous about graduation and my trip there.It has been over a year now going on two and he wears his uniform and takes much pride in his job. He recently married, so I am thrilled, he won't live with me forever.LOL Know when they succeed that you have taught them values and raised them to be independent,that's when you can say good job mom:)
I sent my son to basic yesterday. I am very emotional and I miss him like crazy. I know this is whats best for him and I am exited for him. My sadness right now is my own. I know he will not be coming back home ever as a child and to a mother that in its self is soooo hard. I know he will experience great things in the Navy but I miss my little boy.......
You will be fine! He'll be finer! You can check out your local chapter of Blue Star Moms (moms of active- duty servicemen and women) and become active in an organization that supports all our kids. It will help you to feel closer to your son when you are doing something that supports him and everyone around him.Best wishes.
I was right where you are not long ago. My son graduates this Friday 12/4 and I am so anxious to see him. There were a few times that all I could do was cry, but, in the end this is a great thing for them. My son says he can't wait for me (his mommy) see how much he has grown up and see the man he has become. I can guarantee I will be crying like a baby come Friday, but, oh the tears of joy! Hang in there... it gets better.
Chris just got word that his request to leave for boot camp earlier was approved. He will still be going to IT school, but he leaves Jan. 21 instead of his original ship date of April 21.

I'm very excited, I can't wait until it's time to start getting ready for him to go!
In a way I envied my son, he will get to do and see things I have never done or seen. I knew bootcamp would be hard, but anything worth having is worth working for, so I had no problems.

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