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Hi all,

(for anyone who doesn't know me, I'm an only child in the process of joining the navy)

So my mom has always been really supportive of me in everything I've done including joining the navy, but the other day my aunt (mom's sister, I'm visiting her for a couple days) let slip that my mom is actually really worried about me. I know it's a mom's job to worry, I just don't like making her worry. I wish there was something I could do to help her worry less.
Any advice, suggestions, words of encouragement?

Thanks :)

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Tell her to get on the facebook site Navymoms and we will all talk to her, answer any questions and just listen. Let her know that when you are in the Mom's become like one big family also We are always here to support.

Good Luck Honey and thank you!
Navy for moms is wonderful. There are other moms who know what your going through. they helped  a lot by just listening. It helps knowing that you are not the only one. My son just finished his first year in japan. Any time I was sad or missed him, there was a mom who understood. good luck, Susan,
Thanks Paula, I'll be sure to pass on the link to her.

Judy, that's a good idea too, thanks.
Guppy,
Sit down with your mom in front of the computer. Help her set up her own N4M account. Take her on a tour. Show her how to use this site. She won't be alone for long. Show her that she is not alone and that others worry about their sons/daughters too. Also have her join the following groups. If she post a comment on the Arizona Moms Group, she might find someone near her and arrange to have lunch, coffee or ? I am in Northern CA. We have regular get togethers. 27 of us got together for dinner during Fleet Week in Oct. If she can connect with others, she will be fine. The last two links will help you/her navigate this site. Good luck.

http://www.navyformoms.com/group/newmomsstophere
http://www.navyformoms.com/group/seasonedmomsanswerstothequestions
http://www.navyformoms.com/group/deppersinbutnotyet
http://www.navyformoms.com/group/bootcampmoms
http://www.navyformoms.com/group/arizonamoms?

Two blogs on how to use this site.
1. Welcome to New Members
2. A Message for New Members

PS. See the Inbox on the upper right? That is where she'll see if you have messages and /or friend request. Settings will take you to "profile" page where you could change you USERNAME, email address, password etc. Click on MAIL on left will take you to changing your email notifications.
Thank you. She has an account here, but hasn't been on much. I'll direct her to those groups to chat with other moms :)
Guppy, my son is 26, has been an officer for over 3 years, has a college degree in engineering, is super competent and professional. Guess what? I still worry. You should hear me sometimes. "Now don't drive anywhere you shouldn't", "It may be cold, be sure to take a coat.", "Do you have enough money?" "Are there any restaurants open, you are going to get hungry.", "There are a lot of crazy women out there. Don't get involved." and on and on. My son rolls his eyes, shakes his head and just laughs .......
PS. on my last comment, he said "Where?"
haha aww :) I guess it's a mom's job.
I worry about both of my kids. One in the Navy one lives at home. I still tell both to be careful when they go out. Think about what they are doing...not sure if that sinks in. Worried mostly about my sailor eating correctly, sleeping enough, getting the best training and working to be her best. Its our job, yes I know her job will put her in harms way, but I do know that the Navy has trained her for a long time to do her job, and she has others that supervise her that have tons more experience and knowledge than her, and really are concerned for her safety and well being. She tells me tons of stories about her bosses, and the kindness they show her when she is having a bad day at work. Not every time, but she has had some tough days and they listened to her, which is exactly what she needed that day. I think any mom will worry no matter what job you have, just a little more worry when you arent at home. Best of luck to you.
Thanks Kathy, thats a great perspective.
If you were my daughter the first thing I'd do is hack in to your N4M account and change your name. I really prefer "Poecilia Princess"
it's a nickname from swimteam referring to the fish none of the other associated slang.
LOL but don't you think Poecilia Princess has a sophisticated slant?

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