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Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit - America's Navy and also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:



**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  Still limited to 2 guests maximum.

Specific information on this policy change will be provided in the coming days and weeks.

We sincerely apologize for any inconvenience and appreciate your support.


RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 7/16/2021**




**UPDATE - 2020**

Due to COVID there is no public PIR. The graduations are on Thursday, and the video of the graduation is posted on RTC's FaceBook on Friday at approx 3pm. Please keep in mind that a division may need to complete additional quarantine during training which will delay their graduation.

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Haven’t heard from my son yet

Started this discussion. Last reply by B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN Nov 10, 2021. 8 Replies

Hi, my son left 10/26/21 and I have not heard from him other than the quick phone call on 10/27 early morning hours. When will he be able to communicate his graduation date, his division info so we…Continue


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Lindsey liked MAV's discussion Haven’t heard from my son yet
Dec 8, 2021
Phoenixmom left a comment for MAV
"Hello welcome to Navy moms! so glad that you have joined. If there is anything that I can help with please let me know."
Nov 19, 2021
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN replied to MAV's discussion 'Haven’t heard from my son yet'
"Hi Trixie - I left the link to the boot camp group in the welcome message on your page.  Click on the blue hyper link and it will take you directly to the group.  You might be looking at a January PIR since there are now PIR's the…"
Nov 10, 2021
belovedbyHim replied to MAV's discussion 'Haven’t heard from my son yet'
"Trixie -- Welcome!! First.... Take a Deep breath in......... Let it out........ Another in.......... and out!!! I KNOW this is hard to hear but you are in the middle of the Great silence, Your SR Is progressing right on pace and the fact that you…"
Nov 10, 2021
Trixie replied to MAV's discussion 'Haven’t heard from my son yet'
"Hi. I am new here also. My son left for Bootcamp on the 19th of October. I have not heard a word either. Can someone point me to the Bootcamp group and any other helpful areas for questions? Thank you so much"
Nov 10, 2021
belovedbyHim left a comment for MAV
"Yep MAV -- That's why I mentioned it.  You sailor DOES NOT want to be late and in the Navy, ON TIME is Late!!! It happened that a sailor in my son's unit was late and my son said that the RDC's came in Yelling and screaming and…"
Nov 9, 2021
belovedbyHim replied to MAV's discussion 'Haven’t heard from my son yet'
" on this link (It was also in the information I posted on your page.) You will have to scroll down past a lot of information (Read…"
Nov 4, 2021
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN replied to MAV's discussion 'Haven’t heard from my son yet'
"MAV - You have joined the boot camp group - when you look at your page - about halfway down you'll see the groups you are in.  One of them is Boot Camp.  Click on the picture/icon and that will take you directly to the boot camp…"
Nov 4, 2021
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At 9:15am on January 9, 2022, Chipmunk said…

Welcome to Beyond BC group, I am glad you have joined us! Feel free to share as much or as little as you would like in that group. I hope you are finding it a little easier to navigate this site. 

At 11:09am on November 19, 2021, Phoenixmom said…

Hello welcome to Navy moms! so glad that you have joined. If there is anything that I can help with please let me know.

At 10:10pm on November 9, 2021, belovedbyHim said…

Yep MAV -- That's why I mentioned it.  You sailor DOES NOT want to be late and in the Navy, ON TIME is Late!!! It happened that a sailor in my son's unit was late and my son said that the RDC's came in Yelling and screaming and removed him from the compartment... that 's the last my sailor saw or heard about him since he left at midnight for A school and we didn't see him at the airport before he flew out that morning.  (I'll share this on the BC page too.)

At 11:10pm on November 4, 2021, Chipmunk said…

MAV - Welcome to the N4M website and I also see you joined the BC Mom and loved ones group, which I wanted to welcome you to as well. I am another mom that helps out on the site to answer questions and encourage our new members. I see you posted a discussion, and that B'sNuke encouraged you to come over to the BC Mom group. When you get to that page, there is a lot of information, so scroll down past that, then past the discussion area and you will find a comment wall on that group page as well. That is where we post our daily comments, share our ups and downs, ask and answer questions. More of our members receive an email feed from the comment wall so that is a better place to post your questions. 

Stick around and if you can, this site is a lot easier to view on a computer than on a mobile device. 

At 1:47pm on November 4, 2021, belovedbyHim said…

Welcome!! Please read my blog to give you an idea of what the first few weeks may look like.. First Things First-- The Quarantine Edition Up and to the Left is a link to all the Navy Lingo! It is titled Navy Speak and you can find it here. We are here to get you through the “Great Silence” of the next 4 weeks (ish) and the 10 weeks of BC (ish). You will come to learn that No News Is GOOD News and everything is Needs of the Navy. You life will be Hurry Up and Wait and it’s ok to make plans but they are subject to change until after they have happened so it’s best to embrace the Motto: Semper Gumby!! (Always Flexible!!)

The Expected timeline will look like this
Day 0 -- Travel, Arrival and "I'm Here" scripted phone call

Week 1&2
Day 1-14 -- ROM (Restriction of Movement/ Quarantine-- Lots of studying and waiting) Unless they are Fully Vaccinated (2 weeks after final shot) in which case they skip straight to Week 3.

Week 3
Day 15-21 Arrive Onboard RTC and begin P-days (P-days- Initial Processing Days) including 2 days of P-hold (Weekend)
Day 21-- Complete P days. (Initial PFT & Run)

Week 4- First week of training 
Day 22-- Begin training and mail form letter out. Look for it to arrive around 1-2 weeks later

Week 5 -- First inspections and tests (Dental May be this week or next... Not Confirmed)(Form letter/ Personal letters usually arrive this week)

Week 6 -8 -- More training, Drilling (Flags and Marching), Fire Fighting training, Marlinspike (Line handling- How to tie up a Ship to the Pier) and weapons lessons, Confidence chamber( May or may not be happening yet, we don’t know for sure).. Warrior training in here somewhere.

Week 9 & 10 -- Stressful!! They have all their final inspections, PFA, Drills, BS21 and Tests. This is the lead up to the end!!

All of this is assuming no exposure to COVID with additional ROM
Training typically occurs Monday - Friday but we have heard rumors that Saturday’s are now training days as well.
Normal PIR will be 10 Fridays after departure from Home but it can be less by 1 but it can be extended by ???? (lots!!) It just depends on how many times they get caught in the “Ring of Fire” but do not get COVID. IF they get COVID, Once they are recovered they will not be removed from training again even if they are in the “Ring of Fire”. (so there is that small silver lining if kids get sick)
I Hope you’ll come and join us on the Main Boot Camp Moms page: You may have to scroll down a ways to reach the comments but we’d love to get to know you and answer any questions or concerns you may have or just be a support from others who “get it”.

At 10:43am on November 4, 2021, B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN said…

Welcome to!   

Head to “Settings” on the main page right away to add a profile image (no last names visible, please) and complete your Profile. Then - and this is important! - read these Community Guidelines and this Operations Security (OPSEC) Checklist, for the safety and privacy of all our Sailors.

Then jump right in!  Browse around the site and check out the groups and the information in their Discussion Forums.

Join this group for boot camp moms, where you'll also find a group for your Pass in Review (graduation) date; and this one for PIR Reference Information.  

Get a head start during boot camp by joining groups for, and learning about, your Sailor's occupational specialty and "A" School; and later your Sailor's duty station and/or Navy ship and homeport. You can also join groups for your own state, region or home town and interests from getting ready for deployment to care package ideas!

Please say Hi when you join a group, and feel free to ask any and all questions - everyone was new once, and there is no "dumb" question.  This site was created by the U.S. Navy just for you, and we look forward to getting to know you and your Sailor.  Welcome to the NAVY family - we're so glad you're here!!

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