This site is for mothers of kids in the U.S. Navy and for Moms who have questions about Navy life for their kids.

FIRST TIME HERE?

FOLLOW THESE STEPS TO GET STARTED:

Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

Format Downloads:

Navy Speak

Click here to learn common Navy terms and acronyms!  (Hint:  When you can speak an entire sentence using only acronyms and one verb, you're truly a Navy mom.)

N4M Merchandise


Shirts, caps, mugs and more can be found at CafePress.

Please note: Profits generated in the production of this merchandise are not being awarded to the Navy or any of its suppliers. Any profit made is retained by CafePress.

Navy.com Para Familias

Visite esta página para explorar en su idioma las oportunidades de educación y carreras para sus hijos en el Navy. Navy.com

Badge

Loading…
Donna

Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones)

Information

Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones)

To everyone with a loved one at RTC or soon to be there, we say, "Welcome!"  To those who are sticking around after PIR to help those who are just beginning this awesome journey, we say, "Thank you!"

**BEGINNING OCTOBER 5, 2023, RECRUIT GRADUATIONS WILL BE CONDUCTED EVERY THURSDAY (NO LONGER ON FRIDAY), EXCEPT FOR THE WEEK OF THANKSGIVING, WHEN GRADUATION IS ON WEDNESDAY.

This is a place to talk, ask questions, and share stories. It is our desire that this Group will provide the information, encouragement, and support you need while your loved one is at RTC in Great Lakes. Enjoy your time here and feel free to Comment and join in the Discussions. Be sure to check out the "Pages" to the right, located under the pictures of the Members, especially OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile), (Click "View All" to see all of them.)

Please, if you no longer want to be a part of N4M's consider NOT deleting your profile as everything you have ever posted will disappear when you delete it .  You can leave a group but don't permanently delete your profile!

Members: 13216
Latest Activity: yesterday

Answers to Common Questions

The Navy has updated their Cell Phone Usage (4/2024).

Read the article here on personal cell phones for call homes:

Personal Cell Phone Use for Calls Home

This link gives you a breakdown of the training schedule at boot camp.

BASIC MILITARY TRAINING SCHEDULE

New in 2022: Navy to lengthen Basic Military Training

Navy to lengthen Boot Camp - Navy Times

Are there any official RTC sites?

Yes, check out https://www.facebook.com/NavyRecruitTrainingCommand and http://www.bootcamp.navy.mil/. They will have lots of information for you. https://www.facebook.com/NavalServiceTraining also has items at times.

https://www.facebook.com/ASBPGreatLakes has pics of some of the recruits who give blood while at RTC. Those donations occur about 2 weeks (10 to 16 days depending on the division) before PIR.

You may also find pics in https://www.navy.mil/viewGallery.asp.

RTC will stream PIR live at http://navylive.dodlive.mil/ beginning at 8:45 am CST on the day of PIR for those who are unable to attend in person. (Once PIR has passed, you will be able to see the video at https://navylive.dodlive.mil/. If the one you want is not there, then click on a PIR video and then change the date in the URL to the date you want. You will have to change both the numerical date and the written out date in the URL. For example, if you want the video for the March 3, 2017 PIR date, then change https://navylive.dodlive.mil/2019/08/23/navy-recruit-graduation-august-23-2019/ to https://navylive.dodlive.mil/2017/03/03/navy-recruit-graduation-march-3-2017/.)

 

Can recruits take anything to BC with them?

Recruits should go with what they have on their backs, their cell phones, and not much else. Effective August 2022 Recruits can bring their own (approved) running shoes.  (See Things to Do in the Last Month Before Your Future Sailor Leaves for RTC.)

 

What will the first day be like at BC?

See Arrival and What Happens at RTC and Ship/Division--How it Works.

How long is the "I'm here!" call and when will s/he be able to call again?

See Phone Cards and Phone Calls.

 

I got my recruit's address from the recruiter. Can I trust it?

Double-check the address the recruiter gave you against those at 

RTC Division Addresses, but we strongly encourage you to wait on the form letter before sending mail to your recruit since the address provided by the recruiter prior to that can be wrong up to 11 business days or more after the recruit's arrival if the recruit failed the first attempt at the run and then passed (or failed) the second attempt and was ASMO'd to a different division (or to SEPS) or if RTC needed to move recruits for some reason. Sometimes a form letter is not mailed by accident and if it has been at least 3 calendar weeks since your recruit arrived at RTC and you do not have a form letter, then you can call the recruiter and get the address and mail letters to your recruit since the address in the system should be the correct one at that point, but be sure to double-check the address here Ship/Division--How it Works

---

**NOTE: There is a virtual graduation for your Sailor that you can watch on the RTC FaceBook page.  It is posted the FRIDAY after PIR.

RTC Facebook Page - Graduation

--- 

When will the Form Letter come and what is in it?

The form letter will arrive in your regular mail around nine to fourteen business days after the recruit's arrival at RTC since it is not mailed until a division’s 1-1 Day of Training, which takes place after your recruit has taken and passed the run portion of the Baseline PFA, which is on or about the fifth business day after arrival (later if the division that your recruit was tentatively placed in upon arrival did not fill until a later date). See Physical Fitness Assessment (PFA) and Fitness Improvement Training (FIT)The brochure that is included from MWRGL about hotels and other things is at Travel Guide . The form letter includes your recruit's address, so now you can mail out all the letters you have been writing. There is more on this in Letter Writing & Fun Stuff/Questionnaires to send to your Recruit.

The form letter will also tell you the date of PIR, so you can start making plans for your trip. There are many hotels in the area and there is information in the grad pack and on this site about them. If you fly in, renting a car will make your life easier. Also, if you are flying, some airlines, such as Southwest, will allow you to change your flight without a charge if something happens, so you do not have to book refundable tickets.  ** EDITED - LIVE PIR's RESUME 8/13/2021**

UPDATED TRAINING SCHEDULE (6/2022 - Thanks to belovedbyHim)

The Expected timeline will look like this:

Day 0 -- Travel, Arrival and "I'm Here" scripted phone call

Week 1 Day 1-7 -- Arrive Onboard RTC and begin P-days (P-days- Initial Processing Days) including 2 days of P-hold (Weekend)

Day 8 -- Begin training and mail form letter out. Look for it to arrive around 1-2 weeks later
Week 2 -- First week of Training including PT and Swim Qualifications
Week 3 -- Marlin Spike - (Line handling- How to tie up a Ship to the Pier) , First inspections and tests (Dental May be this week or next... Not Confirmed)(Form letter/ Personal letters usually arrive this week) 

Week 4 -- Confidence Chamber & Fire Fighting training
Week 5 -- Fire Arms Training    

Week 6 -7 -- More training, Drilling (Flags and Marching).

Week 8 – Battle Stations (done prior to final PFA). Your SR will call home to say they are a Sailor but they still have to pass final PFA in order to graduate.

Week 9 & 10– Warrior Training (Life skills) and Final PFA


Approx 10 Fridays from Departure they will have PIR!! If you can go you will be amazed at the change that happened in just 10 short weeks. For the time being they are also still Live Streaming the PIR ceremony.

Once you know your recruit's PIR date, be sure to join the group for that date. PIR groups are posted on the Comment Wall below once they are created. 

USPS Informed Delivery - Sign up and receive an email from the US Postal Service showing what mail you will be getting each day (if available in your area).  

Informed Delivery®

How long should I plan to stay in the Great Lakes area?

Arrive at least the day before PIR so you can pick up your ticket/s for PIR and also attend Sarge's Meet and Greet if you wish to do so.

If your Sailor's "A" School or training is in GL, then plan to leave late Sunday or on Monday. If your Sailor will be flying out, then plan to leave late Saturday or on Sunday to have the most time with your Sailor. (This may need to be adjusted if PIR is not on Friday.) See Saving Money PIR Weekend and PIR Day and Liberty during PIR Weekend.

**UPDATED LIBERTY RULES - GL - AUGUST 2022**

Here is a link from Great Lakes regarding their Updated Liberty Rules during PIR weekend, effective August, 2022. (Thank you Amy for sharing this with me.)  I'll post it in a few different places.

Updated Liberty Rules for GL - August 2022

SARGE'S MEET & GREET  - BACK AS OF 3/18/2022

Plan to arrive the day before PIR so you won't risk missing PIR and go to Sarge's Meet and Greet from 4pm to 8pm the evening before PIR at the Lakehurst Event Center (go to http://www.mynavytaxi.com/events.html to RSVP). Sarge has a taxi service and he is a wealth of information. His cell number is 847-212-0246. His Meet and Greet and services have been getting great reviews. Find Sarge on N4M as OldSarge.

 

Who can attend PIR?

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021 

Your recruit will indicate the names of up to FOUR guests who will be permitted to receive tickets and attend PIR. RTC may change that to three guests if there is a large TG. Children ages 2 and under do not need a ticket to attend PIR, but a copy of the child's birth certificate may be presented in order for the child to attend PIR. The names of the guests will be listed on the Security Access Form. Your recruit will send the Security Access Form with the form letter and it will need to be completed fully and returned to your recruit. if you do not receive the form letter, then you can download the Security Access Form and complete it and send it to your recruit, but your recruit has the final say on who will attend PIR.

ALL GUESTS 3 YEARS OLD AND OLDER MUST HAVE A TICKET TO ATTEND PIR, INCLUDING MILITARY GUESTS (ACTIVE DUTY, RESERVE, RETIRED, VET). No extra guests allowed, no exceptions.

GUESTS SECURITY ACCESS FORM: If you are going to be attending the graduation ceremony, you will need to fill out the security access form, which is included with your form letter. Return the form to your recruit according to the instructions. 

ONLY YOUR RECRUIT CAN CHANGE THE GRADUATION CEREMONY ACCESS LIST: Your recruit will be able to make changes to the access list throughout training. The last opportunity to make changes will be the week before graduation. If there is a change to be made to the access list (such as a name spelled incorrectly, name-swap, etc…) please communicate any changes to your recruit by mail. Recruit Training Command staff cannot change these names or release the names of those on the list. Please do not call for additional seats!

The form can also be downloaded by anyone from the website, but only the recruit has final say-so as to who will be invited. Those names are submitted and those names will be printed on tickets. All of those guests attending must be present with ID to pick up the ticket in person. No exceptions, no swapping of tickets, no changing of names during final week of graduation.

If you are attending a graduation ceremony, you MUST personally obtain your ticket, you cannot pick up tickets for others. Tickets will be distributed at the Recruit Family Welcome Center, located inside the Navy Exchange Burkey Mall, Bldg. 3452, 2650 Green Bay Road Great Lakes, IL 60088 

Additional information on ticketing is also available at www.bootcamp.navy.mil. (See http://www.bootcamp.navy.mil/faq.html#grad_ceremony.)

Once you receive your ticket, please DO NOT lose it, as this will be the only ticket you will receive. These tickets are not transferable and are serialized to each graduation attendee. If you do not have a ticket, then you will not be permitted access to the base.

The Recruit Family Welcome Center will be open on the following days and times: Thursday [10:00 AM to 7:30 PM], and Friday [5:30 AM to 8:00 AM]. ***Certain federal holidays may require adjusting days and times. Please refer to the command website for those specific updates***

Please plan accordingly so each person listed can check in to receive a ticket for the graduation ceremony. Again, if you don’t have a ticket you will NOT be allowed entry to the base. Tickets will only be issued to those guests who the graduating recruit has verified will be attending. 

Driving on to base.

Driver’s license, vehicle registration, proof of insurance or rental car agreement and graduation ticket must be ready to present to security at access points. Everyone in the car ages three and over must show their ticket to graduation. If someone in the car over the age of two does not have a ticket, they are not allowed through the gate, no exceptions.

  • NO cell phone usage while driving on base! 
  • Seat belts are required for all drivers/passengers at all times
  • Motorcycle drivers/riders MUST have proper protective clothing/equipment such helmet, long pants, long-sleeved shirt, and over the ankle hard-soled boots.
  • Recent graduates are prohibited from operating motor vehicles, including motorcycles, and are NOT allowed to be a passenger on a motorcycle.

See Bootcamp.Navy.Mil for the Frequently Asked Questions.

What will happen PIR weekend?

See PIR Day and Liberty during PIR Weekend

http://www.bootcamp.navy.mil/graduation.html and http://www.navyformoms.ning.com/custom/media/downloads/N4M_PIR_infographic_web.pdf.

S.O. Contract:

Moms whose sons have an S.O. Contract headed to BUD/S there is a group for you.

It is called, BUD/S and SQT (Stages of a S.E.A.L.)

Interested:

Send a friend request to NavyMom(J) for more information.

(Click on the highlighted links.)

Be sure to check out the Pages to the right (under the pictures of the Members) for additional information. (You will need to click "View All" to see all of them.)

Donna is no longer active on the site. Several others who have begun this journey before you are here to help. (Donna, we are forever thankful that you started this group that continues to help so many.)

Discussion Forum

Boot camp

Started by Darlene. Last reply by Chipmunk Feb 18. 8 Replies

PASS Class Guidance?

Started by legoNavymom03. Last reply by B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet) Dec 18, 2023. 1 Reply

PIR Weekend Experiences - Post Covid

Started by Chipmunk. Last reply by Chipmunk Oct 11, 2023. 19 Replies

Bootcamp

Started by Angie. Last reply by B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet) Sep 28, 2023. 5 Replies

Logistics when leaving for boot camp

Started by Happynurse. Last reply by TravelAddictedNavyMom Sep 21, 2023. 8 Replies

Comment Wall

Comment

You need to be a member of Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones) to add comments!

Comment by Amac23 on March 22, 2012 at 11:30am

We're getting down to legalism here. As long are you're ok with it, then all is well. He is a grown man who can make his own decisions- glad you're taking it so well, mom!

Comment by Tina Gary's mom on March 22, 2012 at 11:21am

Wow, I was a bit stunned at the direction a discussion took. Way to go Lisa Nick's Mom, you aren't on here to have to explain anything to any of us on this site. What you and your SR decide is entirely what you guys decide and what works best in your home may not work in my home and so fourth, so far be it for me or anyone else to stand in judgement. Continue to love and support your son as you see fit and don't let someone else's bitterness with their life cast a shadow on such an amazing time as we're going through.

Comment by prayin'navymom Ship 009/Div.138 on March 22, 2012 at 11:18am

Lisa-I have been feeling defeated as well, I guess that is just part of the Mom thing we are feeling. I am sure I am not the only one that just pain and simple - have the full blown "miss him like crazy, and can't shake it" blues. I am right there with you with the May can't come wuick enough thing! As I have said many times - I wish I could zap myself into a bear and hibernate until May. lol. Hang in there. I am sure everyone with 5/4 PIR will begin receiving letters soon. I am just hoping the SR's are getting them by now. I am sure he needs them alot more then I do, so I just keep praying that he is finally getting them. I sure hope you have found a few people who are in the same ship/div as your SR. Take care....

Have a great day everyone!

Comment by Jess' Proud Mom on March 22, 2012 at 10:36am

Greatlakes25 - I must interject. I understand how you must feel. How rejected by your SR and it is understandable. My son graduated on 3/2 and he had a girlfriend at the time. I love her but I was jealous of the fact that I no longer had the "top dog" status in his life. He called me first but always asked me if it was alright if he called her next. I appreciated the respect that he gave me but I wanted more time. I, in the end, understood his need to be more grown up. To have that connection to another person besides me. It hurt but it is the fact of life.

It isn't about faith but about the relationship between two people that may or may not result in marriage. As a teenager, I am sure you remember that you met people that you believed or hoped would be the one. I know how you feel and I ache for your pain but you have to understand from his side of the page that he is growing up. We love you here and want to support you in every way. 

It says also in the Bible that to bring things that could hurt you to your attention. Matthew 18:15-17. I do this in love and hope you will understand. :)

Comment by Hayden'smom02-923PIR04/20 on March 22, 2012 at 10:20am

Lisa-Nick'smom, What a wonderful response good for you! After a a comment/post like that I would feel so discouraged and I would probably not want to share about my SR anymore. When I found this site I felt like there was people out there that were going through the exact same thing, and for the first time since my SR left I started to feel like maybe I wasn't crazy or feeling overly sensitive. Comments like greatlakes25 surely would have made me feel terribly sad and not in the sharing mood. I love your response and I truly believe it shouldn't be that easy to judge people simply by their stories. My SR left for bootcamp and didn't have a gf, but if he would've I'm positive we would have talked it like you did and it would have worked out fine! We are here for you and support you, God bless you and your family! P.S. Got a letter from my SR yesterday! Happy dance at mailbox!   :o)

Comment by Katze90210 (3/113) on March 22, 2012 at 10:17am
Gels cosy a little more but last a lot longer. I too type, do the dishes and garden(no gloves here they just get in the way) and my gels hold up. Oh and I spackle and paint the rooms in my house as needed. Not to mentinion other thIngs. I figure for an event like this I can splurge! Lol
Comment by Patrick's Mom on March 22, 2012 at 9:43am

Mary, I hope you'll feel free to share your feelings here when your daughter leaves for the Army.  How sad they don't have a site such as this.  You're a Navy Mom and now will be an Army Mom too - I'm sure I'm not alone in saying we welcome any and all feelings you have to share.

Just wanted to share one more thing...

I have found it heartwarming how some Moms and girlfriends are using this opportunity to get to know each other better and build relationship.  What a precious gift that could turn out to be.  You both love the same young man, and it seems it would be something that could give him happiness and peace too!  Bravo to all of you!

And to those of you who feel sad because you're not getting the calls or letters, prayers are going up for you!  After being the number 1 woman in our son's lives for years and years, it's difficult at best to feel you've lost that spot.  But...they only have ONE mother, (and some are lucky to have a wonderful stepmother too) and truly you can NEVER be replaced!

Comment by Patrick's Mom on March 22, 2012 at 9:13am

I also love the Lord with all my heart, and in reading some of these posts, have to admit I was finding myself glad my son didn't have a steady girlfriend when he went to boot camp.  He only called me and his Dad and of course we were thrilled and grateful for each and every call.

However, I can undestand how your post greatlakes could feel hurtful to Lisa who has raised an outstanding young man.  Her statement that her son "believes she (the girlfriend) is the one and she hopes she is" is so heartwarming to me.  I look so forward to the day I have a "daughter" (my son is my one and only child), when he takes a wife, and I can only hope and pray that I love her and am crazy about her too!

I understand what you are saying greatlakes about honoring your father and mother.  It is completely biblical, and what God commands us to do.  Sadly though, all children have not had the benefit of being raised in a home that has taught them this.  Your son is a very fortunate young man who I believe has his priorities set in a very Godly way.

I think the best thing we can all do is support, empathize, listen to and pray for each other.  I truly get that by your statements you were trying to support those mothers who are heartbroken not hearing from their sons before a girlfriend.  Sometimes the way we say things just doesn't come out the way we mean it to.  May we all extend grace to each other when that is the case.

Comment by greatlakes25 on March 22, 2012 at 8:20am

Ladies i cannot belive that there are people sitting and having to call a teenager to

find out if there son/daughter has called or wrote. If anyone attend church and read the bible it clearly says"HONOR THOU MOTHER AND FATHER" In my 42 yrs it has not added girlfriend. This will NEVER cross my son mind to ask is this ok because its not. If this is harsh i truly apologize.But its the sons fault he should

always call mother first it is disrespectful and rude.Girlfriends and mothers are not equal. When these young men take wives thats when you as mother get second chair. Well for my son it will be third chair because he has a religious connection it will be the lord first then his" wife" then me and his sister in that order. And i stand by this assertion. Ask him    !!!!!!!!

                                                                      MOTHERS FIRST!!!!!

Comment by Katze90210 (3/113) on March 22, 2012 at 6:14am
Juliebelle28. I get the gels because nothing last on me either. They are my nails, just protects by the gels and they last like 6 weeks. The worst thing to happen is they grow out.
 
 
 

© 2024   Created by Navy for Moms Admin.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service