Former Navy wife and Mother of two, Nick is a west coast sailor.
Our sailor son ...
PIR-ed from division 161, ship 7 on April 25, 08
Graduated from A school in GL in December 05, 08 as FC
Starts his C school - Aegis Spy Radar in Jan. 09
Made E4 in June 2009
Graduates from C school as Honor Grad - July 31, 2009
Reported to the fleet August 23, 2009
FC2 Selectee - September 2010 cycle 208
Earned ESWS - September 2012
ReEnlisted - four more years October 26, 2012
His dad was also an FC... for 10 years!
I am here to support my
Son/Daughter
Stage of (Sailor’s) Navy career?
Enlisted
When I heard “Navy,” I...
Was proud and encouraged it
The Navy offers opportunities that...
Our son is a sailor...our son is an Adult!
Our Navy experience so far...
It was positive and maturing. Our relationship has grown stronger.
Thank you for the welcome, Mary. I'll take advice and support over a fabulous prize. My daughter is just starting her A School in GL on 12/10. She will be an ET. This is all new to me so I'm sure I'll have a lot of questions. Sounds like a long, but exciting, journey ahead for her.
Thank you for giving me some answers. The way we have heard it that Rus will be training other reservest that come for the weekend. I don"t know how true that is. Is this what your friends sailor does? Is your friends son older-my son is 26 and I have noticed that the other 3 moms I have met, their sons are all 25. did he get to have a pick for his duty station? my sailor says he doesn't. alot of reserves go to their home state or close to it-I don't think this is the case for my son..He is AE and will be working on the F-18 so he will probably go to a coast.
I'm sorry for asking so much...I just want to learn all I can.
hi yea im having a hard time i know once i hear from him i will feel better my son david is in submarine electronics computer feild i am confused which groups to join im new at this. he will be going to A school in conn, he has been there 3 weeks tomorrow do you know how soon they get to write or get a phone call? thanks so much
thank you so much i will be looking in the mail, tomorrow i have to have surgery i have to get my gallbladder removed, so my daughter s gonna check the mail for me. thank you so much for the info and your time take care and god bless you
Thank you very much for filling me in on that information. Right now, my SR and I have been in a relationship for 5yrs, our anniversary passed a few weeks ago, and we're hoping to make this work. I'm still in NJ working towards an Associates. I should be done within two years.
I'm hoping we can make it through all this and become even closer. Times will be tough, but I'm very proud for what he decided to do with his life. His family and I are really supporting him to the fullest.
I'll be sure to look to you and the other ladies in the group to help answer any questions that I might have. Again, thank you! :)
No letter yet! Im praying it comes soon. My husband pre wrote 8 letters for my mother to give to me while he is gone but it just is not the same! I want to know how he is doing now!
Thank you so much!!! we are 3 weeks down 6 more to go... I have fallen into a routine but still have my moments. I have been doing alot of reading on his Rate and I am so glad I will get to move! That is a HUGE relief! I know he will have alot of work to do and need to studdy alot but it makes me feel better I will be closer to him.... and that he might get to live off base with me.
Hawaii??? I'd die if we got sent there...lol That would be pretty cool!
Thanks so much! I will check that out! I am not holding my breath for HI... it would be nice though :) I be hes loving it! I really hope we dont go to VA that is WAAAAAY too close to my family...... lol
Thank you for the info. No she has been told which way she will go yet. It seem that the recruit gave some conflicting info. But as my husband told her, her best bet was to do her best in her classes and score as high in the class as she can. That when he was in , the highest score gets first choice. I guess thats the best advice she could have got. Because when she left, she was brushing up on her old math class text books. Funny I never seen it when she was actually in High School. She wants to be as close to haome as possibly, but in sure the lure to some places will be hard to pass up.
THANK YOU I WISH I COULD SAY MY SURGERY WAS A PIECE OF CAKE TO BUT I HAD SOME PROUBLUMS WITH MY LIVER AFTER SURGERY, I GUESS SOMETIMES AFTER GALLBLADDER SURGERY YOUR LIVER TRIES TO SHUT DOWN THEY SAY, AND JUST MY LUCK I WAS ONE OF THEM LOL IM DOING BETTER NOW BUT THEY TELL ME I HAVE TO STAY ON BED REST FOR 2 WEEKS. IVE BEEN IN ALOT OF PAIN I THOUGHT THIS SURGERY WAS GONNA BE EASY TO THATS WHAT I WAS TOLD.BUT JUST AS LONG AS IM BETTER BEFORE 2-11-11 WHEN MY SON GRADUATES BOOTCAMP
Thank you so much for reaching out. Yes that is my daughter in the pic. I miss her so much, but I know she is doing good. I'm not sure if she is going to be an ET or a FC. When do they decide which one they will take?
Thank you Mary for the information and words of encouragement. We have received 3 letters plus the form letter so far. Unfortunately he is not receiving our letters, only 3 out of about 20 mailed so far. Broke my heart when he asked me to write in his last letter. We still haven't received a call...makes for a stressful time. He seems to be doing great even after having to get the cold pack! We are so proud of him and look forward to PIR. He is so happy about AECF and thank you for the schooling info. Great to hear you are also in Ga...we could see some "Chicago" weather here this weekend! Appreciate your reaching out to me to help smooth the rough spots!!!
Who decide which rate. Does my daughter or the Navy? She would love to travle and be stationed somewhere I think. She wants to see the world. Do the rates transfer to civilian life?
Thank you so much for your encouragement. This is such an adjustment for all of us. Of course as a parent I want to send him all of the encouragement I possibly can but I realize now that I have to let go and allow them to build a sailor...
Congratulations on becoming a grandmother! I hope mother and baby are doing well. My best to you and your family. Safe travels!
Hey Mary! Thanks for the comment. Yeah my Hubby is in A school, should be finishing in a few weeks now but we'll still be in Great Lakes for a while. Orders are pretty backed up from what i'm hearing. and YES, our baby girl is due May 16th =)
Hi Mary, thanks for friending me. Kim was told that she would be an ET when she was visiting MEPS(?). I am hoping that some day she will move into cryptology, because she had had a dream of going to Japan to teach English and then come to america to teach Japanese. She got 100% on the Language test. Kim's father was an ET when he was in the Navy(before I met him). I am so new at this that I do not even know what I should be asking about.
Thanks for the warm welcome! It will be nice to get to know a seasoned Navy Mom!!! I can't imagine how proud you and your hubby must be! We are so proud of our grandson right now, just after graduating boot camp. It's such an experience to watch how quickly our boys turn into men! Keep in touch!
Hi Mary thanks for your welcoming response. Four more weeks till PIR (2-18-11). Then we will be able to communicate with him a little more. Looking forward to going to Chicago for his graduation. He is so looking forward to this training A and C school. He just finished a two year tech school last summer in electronics. He was leaning towards ET when he left but also liked the sounds of FC but I don't think he really cares one way or another. Back when I was on active duty I was stationed at Hickam AFB, Hi from 88-90 and my son was born there. I would bet your son is have a great time there sure can't beat the weather as I'm saying that it's about 5 degrees here in northwestern Pa.
------------ Next time you hear from your son, ask him what rate he is going into or perhaps you already know that. It sounds like he could be going into AECF, which is Advanced Electronics Computer Field and that is the group for ETs which are Electronic Techs and FCs which are FireControl (not fireman). If he is in that group, you will want to join us at : http://www.navyformoms.com/group/fcsfirecontrol
Hi Mary Thank you for befriending me. Not sure exactly what you mean about what rate he is going into? I do know that he's going to school to be a hull tech. Is that what you mean by rate? LOL I'm so happy I found this site....there has been very little communication with my son so far so this site helps tremendously with what I've been wondering about these past weeks Thanks again
Hi, thanks a lot for the info. She figured about the length of A school, she wasn't sure where. Do they have any chance of coming home for a couple of days while in A school? I'm already panicking...besides graduation I need to see her..We all do here in California.
That must be so beautiful, your son in Hawaii. That's Great..
Hi, thanks for responding. I am really hoping I get some time with her after graduation. I guess phone calls and skype are gonna be better than nothing. Wow, I only have two weeks without hearing anything and I am going crazy. I am having good days though, just knowing the importance of her new life is what keeps me going. I know I will hear her voice soon. Just didn't realize HOW HARD it was gonna be. I thank you for taking the time to inform me of what I must. Take care and talk to you soon.
Oh I hope so, she is my youngest of two and she and I were always together. That's really good to hear. I am so grateful for you and this website. I would be sitting here literally going out of my mind..lol Thank you.
I'm here in California, I hope the weather isn't too bad during her graduation..3/18/11. Have they ever cancelled a graduation due to weather?
Hi Mary! I was an AW1 and was picked up for the Seaman to Admiral program and am now an Ensign Naval Flight Officer. My brother will be going to AV "a" school and select AT or AE. My best to your husband and son.
Thank you so much for the welcome and the information. I am getting better at navigating the site and am thrilled to have found this board. It could be a full time job navigating in here. I was wondering about what C school was and when it took place...glad you have mind reading abilities. Since my son has neither his laptop nor a cell phone yet, I haven't learned anything since dropping him off last Sun night before heading home. At least he knows how to deal with copious amounts of snow. Just saw a sailor on the Green Bay on the morning news and wierdly beamed with pride, life has shifted once again whether or not I'm ready.
Hi Mary, Thanks for the welcome. As you know this is all a new experience and any info or advice is welcome news. Thanks again. He will PIR 3-11-11. Carol
Hello you commented to me a while back. Yes we ate in southeast Georgia and my son is no longer in ROTC he has graduated high school, bootcamp and " A" school and is now deployed. Im a mess right now he just left about a week ago. Do they get to call home very often we have heard from him once and he sounded like he wasn't allowed to say anything. Like his bootcamp call. I'm so Proud of him I'm just really missing him can you help me with some of my concerns?
Hey Mary! I am actually no longer in Cornelius but I LOVED that area. I miss it quite a bit! So your husband is the FC right? I read your comment on my page, along with Deb's, and I got you two mixed up. I am still getting the hang of N4M. I went on here a lot when my husband first left but now that I am over the initial hump of anxiety I haven't frequented the site as much. It is funny to look back on here and think about how worried I was a couple of months ago and now I feel like a pro so far. I am sure I will have questions though, especially when my husband classes up for a-school. Anyway, has your husband retired? How do you like the Lake Norman area? Are you living down south too? Ok now that I have played 20 questions I will be going! Have a wonderful rest of the weekend!
I am still learning how to navigate this site...please pardon my ignorance... Cameron left for Basic or PIR? Still learning the lingo.... Sept. 20th...after PIR he is headed to Charleston, SC for A school...Nuclear Engineering...
baylorbear works with me. Her daughter is in boot camp now. Kathleen - who started the USS Blue Ridge page lived in WACO. She showed up at work and for a month - even while Patrick was here - I couldn't figure out where I knew her from. She works with the rehab people contracted. I finally figured it out when we were in a meeting and she said her son used to be on the blue ridge. DUH
Hi Mary count me and Matthew to come on July 31, where is this restaurant? I lived in Smyrna. Did you post this to the event? I would like to come to the meet and greet. - China
Hi! My son joined in 2009. He is on the DDE. He is following in my family's footsteps. My dad was in WW2 , 1brother retired recently as LT commander, 1 brother army, uncles, cousins, and my sister's oldest son is a retired sub man. He is single right now. He is a nuke. We are so proud of him!!
Hi Mary, You are now a member of "MAS We Ship Love" so you have access to all the addresses. Sorry I was a little slow because I am in a small town in Michigan and have to go to McDonald's to use their WIFI for a few days while I am here!! Pat
Hi Mary, I sent a email about a week or two ago, I had some stress since my sailor been on deployment. I really need to network with the other N4M & other groups. Also, need help with my profile & setting pages. Because I hadn't been out here since I joined in July 2010. A new administration did email me back I somehow accidently lost her reply and don't know if my private setting is correct. I think it happen adding you has a friend, I don't know what I did wrong. Need an Administration help. Thanks Carrie
Hi Mary, The new adoption for Molly's Adopt A Sailor was announced today. We hope you will help us send some love from home to these sailors on the USS Truxtun (destroyer).
AndreaS61
Dec 1, 2010
ProudNavyWife Ship 7 Div110
Dec 2, 2010
Bobbi Ray
Thank you for giving me some answers. The way we have heard it that Rus will be training other reservest that come for the weekend. I don"t know how true that is. Is this what your friends sailor does? Is your friends son older-my son is 26 and I have noticed that the other 3 moms I have met, their sons are all 25. did he get to have a pick for his duty station? my sailor says he doesn't. alot of reserves go to their home state or close to it-I don't think this is the case for my son..He is AE and will be working on the F-18 so he will probably go to a coast.
I'm sorry for asking so much...I just want to learn all I can.
Thank You
Dec 10, 2010
THERESASUBMOMGROTON
Dec 28, 2010
THERESASUBMOMGROTON
Dec 28, 2010
Alice
Thank you very much for filling me in on that information. Right now, my SR and I have been in a relationship for 5yrs, our anniversary passed a few weeks ago, and we're hoping to make this work. I'm still in NJ working towards an Associates. I should be done within two years.
I'm hoping we can make it through all this and become even closer. Times will be tough, but I'm very proud for what he decided to do with his life. His family and I are really supporting him to the fullest.
I'll be sure to look to you and the other ladies in the group to help answer any questions that I might have. Again, thank you! :)
Dec 29, 2010
mlynnc2
Jan 1, 2011
just a girl with a broken heart
Jan 2, 2011
just a girl with a broken heart
Thank you so much!!! we are 3 weeks down 6 more to go... I have fallen into a routine but still have my moments. I have been doing alot of reading on his Rate and I am so glad I will get to move! That is a HUGE relief! I know he will have alot of work to do and need to studdy alot but it makes me feel better I will be closer to him.... and that he might get to live off base with me.
Hawaii??? I'd die if we got sent there...lol That would be pretty cool!
Jan 2, 2011
just a girl with a broken heart
Jan 2, 2011
Dani_Girl (ET wife)
Jan 3, 2011
Paxston'sgirl
Jan 3, 2011
NavyGirl10(Ship09 Div076)
Jan 4, 2011
THERESASUBMOMGROTON
Jan 5, 2011
Darnell
Jan 7, 2011
Sailormom21811
Jan 8, 2011
Darnell
Thanks Mary,
Who decide which rate. Does my daughter or the Navy? She would love to travle and be stationed somewhere I think. She wants to see the world. Do the rates transfer to civilian life?
Jan 8, 2011
Sailormom21811
Congratulations on becoming a grandmother! I hope mother and baby are doing well. My best to you and your family. Safe travels!
Jan 9, 2011
Karissa {FC_Wife}
Jan 15, 2011
Momof8
Jan 16, 2011
Momof8
Jan 16, 2011
ProudGMBarb
Jan 20, 2011
tstms2003
Hi Mary thanks for your welcoming response. Four more weeks till PIR (2-18-11). Then we will be able to communicate with him a little more. Looking forward to going to Chicago for his graduation. He is so looking forward to this training A and C school. He just finished a two year tech school last summer in electronics. He was leaning towards ET when he left but also liked the sounds of FC but I don't think he really cares one way or another. Back when I was on active duty I was stationed at Hickam AFB, Hi from 88-90 and my son was born there. I would bet your son is have a great time there sure can't beat the weather as I'm saying that it's about 5 degrees here in northwestern Pa.
Thanks for your response. Berk
Jan 22, 2011
MaGil / USS Wayne Meyer
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Next time you hear from your son, ask him what rate he is going into or perhaps you already know that. It sounds like he could be going into AECF, which is Advanced Electronics Computer Field and that is the group for ETs which are Electronic Techs and FCs which are FireControl (not fireman). If he is in that group, you will want to join us at : http://www.navyformoms.com/group/fcsfirecontrol
Hi Mary Thank you for befriending me. Not sure exactly what you mean about what rate he is going into? I do know that he's going to school to be a hull tech. Is that what you mean by rate? LOL I'm so happy I found this site....there has been very little communication with my son so far so this site helps tremendously with what I've been wondering about these past weeks Thanks again
Jan 26, 2011
RissysMom(Proud Mom of a Sailor)
Hi, thanks a lot for the info. She figured about the length of A school, she wasn't sure where. Do they have any chance of coming home for a couple of days while in A school? I'm already panicking...besides graduation I need to see her..We all do here in California.
That must be so beautiful, your son in Hawaii. That's Great..
Jan 28, 2011
RissysMom(Proud Mom of a Sailor)
Hi, thanks for responding. I am really hoping I get some time with her after graduation. I guess phone calls and skype are gonna be better than nothing. Wow, I only have two weeks without hearing anything and I am going crazy. I am having good days though, just knowing the importance of her new life is what keeps me going. I know I will hear her voice soon. Just didn't realize HOW HARD it was gonna be. I thank you for taking the time to inform me of what I must. Take care and talk to you soon.
Catrina
Feb 1, 2011
RissysMom(Proud Mom of a Sailor)
Oh I hope so, she is my youngest of two and she and I were always together. That's really good to hear. I am so grateful for you and this website. I would be sitting here literally going out of my mind..lol Thank you.
I'm here in California, I hope the weather isn't too bad during her graduation..3/18/11. Have they ever cancelled a graduation due to weather?
Feb 1, 2011
InTheBlack
Feb 3, 2011
NF Mom
Thanks, just waiting for the After Battle stations call at the moment.
Storm in Chicago may have delayed things..l
Feb 3, 2011
Deb (FC Mom)
Mary,
Thank you so much for the welcome and the information. I am getting better at navigating the site and am thrilled to have found this board. It could be a full time job navigating in here. I was wondering about what C school was and when it took place...glad you have mind reading abilities. Since my son has neither his laptop nor a cell phone yet, I haven't learned anything since dropping him off last Sun night before heading home. At least he knows how to deal with copious amounts of snow. Just saw a sailor on the Green Bay on the morning news and wierdly beamed with pride, life has shifted once again whether or not I'm ready.
Feb 5, 2011
Momof8
Feb 17, 2011
Carol(ship12 Div.091)
Feb 20, 2011
Lisa Brown/Cory's MOM
Good Morning! I am very excited about his decision!! It will be so good for him!
I am not sure what you mean by rate.
I am loving all the info on this site but a little overwhelmed also.
Where is your son right now?
Mar 10, 2011
Robyn
Apr 14, 2011
WifeyForLifey!!
May 8, 2011
Elizabeth
Jul 18, 2011
Elizabeth
Jul 19, 2011
Elizabeth
Jul 20, 2011
Emily
Jul 24, 2011
abbyblue
Aug 15, 2011
NukeMom
Well tell your husband Happy Birthday from all of us! We are very excited and I know Cameron is ready to go! Keep us in your prayers.
Sep 12, 2011
NukeMom
Mary,
I am still learning how to navigate this site...please pardon my ignorance... Cameron left for Basic or PIR? Still learning the lingo.... Sept. 20th...after PIR he is headed to Charleston, SC for A school...Nuclear Engineering...
Sep 22, 2011
CCR
baylorbear works with me. Her daughter is in boot camp now. Kathleen - who started the USS Blue Ridge page lived in WACO. She showed up at work and for a month - even while Patrick was here - I couldn't figure out where I knew her from. She works with the rehab people contracted. I finally figured it out when we were in a meeting and she said her son used to be on the blue ridge. DUH
Dec 8, 2011
chinadoll19
Hi Mary count me and Matthew to come on July 31, where is this restaurant? I lived in Smyrna. Did you post this to the event? I would like to come to the meet and greet. - China
Jun 10, 2012
CCR
Mary add Leisa Ship 13 Div309 to your friends list.
Aug 19, 2012
Teacake928
Hi! My son joined in 2009. He is on the DDE. He is following in my family's footsteps. My dad was in WW2 , 1brother retired recently as LT commander, 1 brother army, uncles, cousins, and my sister's oldest son is a retired sub man. He is single right now. He is a nuke. We are so proud of him!!
Tammy
Sep 13, 2012
Pat L. in IL
Hi Mary, You are now a member of "MAS We Ship Love" so you have access to all the addresses. Sorry I was a little slow because I am in a small town in Michigan and have to go to McDonald's to use their WIFI for a few days while I am here!! Pat
Jun 25, 2013
carrie
Hi Mary, I sent a email about a week or two ago, I had some stress since my sailor been on deployment. I really need to network with the other N4M & other groups. Also, need help with my profile & setting pages. Because I hadn't been out here since I joined in July 2010. A new administration did email me back I somehow accidently lost her reply and don't know if my private setting is correct. I think it happen adding you has a friend, I don't know what I did wrong. Need an Administration help. Thanks Carrie
Feb 1, 2014
Pat L. in IL
Hi Mary, The new adoption for Molly's Adopt A Sailor was announced today. We hope you will help us send some love from home to these sailors on the USS Truxtun (destroyer).
Apr 1, 2014
Melissa (Tucson)
Oct 16, 2014