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Choose your Username. For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either). Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username. While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!
Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!
Join groups! Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself! Start making friends that can last a lifetime.
Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak
All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018.
Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)
Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC
...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.
Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind. In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships." OPSEC is everyone's responsibility.
DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.
DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."
Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:
**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.
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Visite esta página para explorar en su idioma las oportunidades de educación y carreras para sus hijos en el Navy. Navy.com
This Group is for those that have sailors who graduated Boot Camp on 02/28/2013.
A place to keep up with each other as their journey continues.
Your current Group "veteran members" are:
diannep
LaLa Ribbon Queen PIR Ribbons
ellen0502
♥FireTeamLeaderWife♥ aka FTLW
Betsy, son on Stennis carrier
Craig
sjtina
Cor
Location: Great Lakes, Illinois
Members: 142
Latest Activity: Oct 31, 2014
~OPSEC OPerational SECurity, is always of the utmost importance.
~N4M’s also has Community Guidelines just like any other social media.
~Please take the time to read the OPSEC and N4M’s Community Guidelines.
~A quick note here, from the N4M’s CG’s:
• Don’t Jeopardize the Safety of Our Sailors: Remember OPSEC (Operational Security) (Don’t Sink Ships With Loose Lips) This site and all content posted on it are viewable to everyone on the Internet. This doesn’t mean you can’t share things about your Sailor – but too many details can put Sailors in harm’s way. The following are examples of red flags and should not be shared within this community either by posting or sending via a Group message:
• Sailors’ last names. This includes your username if you share the same last name as your son or daughter.
Some Suggestions:
~If your last name is different from your Recruits it is still not recommended for you to use in your username for your own personal security. This is your option. It is also not a good idea to use an email address as your username for personal security reasons.
~First Names and pictures of your Recruit are allowed but remember, everyone can see it and someone can easily match them up with their "mom". So you might want to consider changing your profile picture to not include your Recruit at least for the duration of BC. Again, your option
~It is also a good idea to make your settings for your Profile Page "viewable only to your friends".
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Uniform care: bring a fur roller, it comes in handy for any stray fuzz they may pick up. Avoid going out for messy meals like spaghetti or greasy, drippy foods. Don't be afraid to suggest a napkin as a bib. Dress blues are dry-clean only wool, and you won't be able to get it cleaned and pressed fast enough if something unfortunate happens to the uniform. Also, have an extra white t-shirt on hand, just in case. Not much of it shows, but it has a tendency to attract anything that drips.
Also, if you go back to your hotel room they can lounge IN YOUR ROOM ONLY in civilian clothes. They cannot leave the room out of uniform. If they go swimming, they MUST wear their uniform swimsuit.
When they are in uniform, they cannot hold hands, kiss (except for a peck on the cheek and a hug of greeting) or have any form of "public display of affection." Don't expect to recreate the sailor/nurse pose, at least not in public.
They *are* allowed to have their mother/sister/significant other hold the crook in the LEFT arm, in the old fashioned "gentlemanly escort" manner. I personally think it's sweet/romantic. The same goes for female sailors. They can tuck their hand into the crook of their father/brother/significant other's RIGHT arm, keeping their own right arm.
No matter which gender, you should stay on their left side, they have to keep their right arm available to salute any officer/flag they come across.
Don't even think about breaking these rules. No, they can't punish YOU. But they can and WILL punish your sailor for your rule breaking, usually by cancelling their liberty (ie sending them back to barracks early) and/or by adding a note to their transfer record. Believe me, it is NOT good for a sailor to arrive at their new school with a fresh write-up. Yes, sailors can and are punished for their family and friends' transgressions.
Your sailor may seem almost afraid of physical contact when you first see them. They know all these rules, and are terrified of accidentally breaking them, and being caught. So even if you try, they may actually physically resist your loving embrace, even if it's an innocent, motherly hug. It takes a few weeks for the extreme conditioning to wear off, but they will never forget proper behavior while in uniform.
If your sailor is going to school in Great Lakes and you will have the weekend with him/her, or if you plan to travel to your sailor's new school for a longer visit, the weekend uniform is the tan and black "service uniform." This one is machine washable, but the same rules for wear and behavior while in uniform will apply. They will not be allowed civilian clothes - at all - for at least several weeks.
Tide pens are helpful with the dress whites (yes, you are correct, sailsetter....they will be in the dress blues...a little easier to keep clean!).
A suggestion one Navy mom gave on hugs to your sailors in their dress uniforms. To keep face makeup off of their shoulder, place your hand/arem on their shoulder and rest your chin on that as you hug!
DNmom, I think it will be the dress blues, so may not be as critical as the dress whites... I was wondering the same thing about the dress whites. how in the world do they keep them clean. have you met my son!!! :O)
Can someone give me some info on how the sailors are instructed to take care of their uniform? I have been searching but cannot find the link. I've just seen others posting about dont hug your sailor because they cannot get their uniform dirty and being careful when they go out to eat...
You may as well break the bad news, I am sure someone else will tell their recruit the news. Of course it may be good news to their son lol, you never know :)
oops, I meant Milwaukee
Hope he does great, K'sMom! I have friends up there to see their son run it. I so admire people who can run marathons!
Good Morning All!
Good luck to your husband K's mom!
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